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National LGBT Cancer Network Seeks Survey Participants

2009-07-19T15:54:00.002-06:00

The National LGBT Cancer Network wants to do something about the increasing prevalence of anal cancer in our community.

First, we need to find out what people know about anal cancer. We are asking gay and bisexual men to complete a brief (5-minute) anonymous online survey to assess their knowledge of anal cancer. We are particularly interested in hearing from men of color and hope that you will publicize this request through your blog, listserves, websites and mailing lists. The more respondents we have, the more we learn.

In the general population, anal cancer is a rare disease, but among men who have sex with men (MSM), the incidence of anal cancer is 40% higher and increasing annually. However, the majority of gay men know little about the disease, have never been tested for it, or even know that screening tests exist. Health care professionals, too, remain divided on how and whether to screen for it. In fact, a standardized screening protocol for anal cancer does not yet exist.
To participate in the survey, click here.

To learn more about cancer in the LGBT community and the work of the National LGBT Cancer Network, please visit our website, www.cancer-network.org

2009-07-19T15:19:00.004-06:00

RIO GRANDE THEATRE

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

AUGUST 2009

Friday, August 18

Peachcake & The Crush

Two fun-loving bands for the price of one, from the cultural wasteland of Phoenix, Arizona. Peachcake is Stefan Pruett and Johnny OKeefe, a couple of pretty good looking shape-shifting vigilantes who use their mutant-based powers to protect the World from audio-terrorism. The Crush is Eric Straub and Danny Love, an R&B/Indie/Pop act who create hot live shows with catchy hooks and intelligent melodies to strike a chord in all listeners. Both want to make your booty shake with techno-pop beats and upbeat lyrics. Showtime is 7:30pm. Tickets are $10. For more information or to reserve tickets, visit www.RioGrandeTheatre.com.

Friday, August 21

Namoli Brennet

Singer/songwriter Namoli Brennet describes herself as an over-achieving multi-instrumentalist with a composition degree. Her technique draws on a wide range of influences, including Shawn Colvin, Jonathan Brooke, Patty Griffin and Joni Mitchell. She is equally at home on the guitar, the piano or the mandolin and even plays a mean harmonica. Brennet’s innate understanding of the language of music allows for a skillful ability to communicate insights that are both poetic and powerful. Showtime is 7:30pm. Tickets are $10. For more information or to reserve tickets, visit www.RioGrandeTheatre.com.

Saturday, August 22

Chris Mitchell

Magician Chris Mitchell has entertained and delighted audiences from around the world, captivating audiences from the very young to the young-at-heart. He has served as Magic Consultant for the USA Network’s “The Big Easy” and has toured North America as an assistant on the World Premiere Tour of Circus Royale. Join Chris on a journey through the magical world of controlled lunacy in two bit shows. Showtimes are 2pm and 7:30pm. For more information or to reserve tickets, visit www.RioGrandeTheatre.com.

Friday, August 28

SWEC presents “Lords Of Nature”

The Southwest Environmental Center (SWEC) joins the New Mexico Wildlife Federation, New Mexico State University’s Department of Wildlife and Conservation Ecology and the Southwest Consolidated Sportsmen in celebrating both Aldo Leopold, the visionary New Mexico conservationist, and the role of predators such as the Mexican Wolf (Lobo) in nature, with a screening of the film “Lords Of Nature.” The film will be followed by a panel discussion, moderated by Kevin Bixby, Executive Director of SWEC. Doors open at 6:30pm, showtime is 7pm. Admission is free. For more information call (575) 522-5552.

Every Other Tuesday at the Rio Grande Theatre

August 11 – Dr. J. Albert Carlile: Master of Mirth, Music, Magic & Medicine

August 25 – Sue & Paul Smith: Musical Duo

Please note: Every Other Tuesday performances always begin at 5:30pm and are free to the public.

On Exhibit in the El Paso Electric and Carolene de Mesilla Galleries

Monday Studio Group

The works of a dozen plus ladies, ranging in age from the late fifties to the early nineties will be on display throughout the month of August 2009, beginning with a reception for the artists to coincide with the First Friday Downtown Arts Ramble, on August 7, at 5pm. Working in watercolor, colored pencils, oils and pastels, the artists of the Monday Studio Group explore many styles of expression and have found that they need all of their energy and enthusiasm as they tackle the difficulties involved in portrait and figure painting. The exhibit will run through August 31, 2009.

Southwest Gay and Lesbian Film Festival - Call For Submissions

2009-07-19T15:15:00.001-06:00

The 2009 Southwest Gay and Lesbian Film Festival’s final deadline is soon approaching. We encourage all filmmakers to submit their work for consideration. Films and videos submitted can be of any length and should be of interest to the gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgendered communities.

Deadline is Friday, July 24, 2009 (Needs to be postmarked by this date)

Competition (Audience awards) for best feature, documentary and best boys and girls shorts are awarded at closing night ceremony.

Please fill out the official entry form completely and sign it. A separate entry form is required for each title. Please feel free to photocopy it or download it in PDF form from our website. Entry form and submission guidelines can be downloaded at http://www.closetcinema.org/

Also, you can submit using the withoutabox.com link located on our website.

Mail Your Entries To:

Closet Cinema
2009 Southwest Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
1209 7th St NW Suite A
Albuquerque, NM 87102

Lori Gordon "Stories" Opens at Sumner & Dene

2009-07-19T15:13:00.002-06:00

Sumner & Dene is proud to announce our August show "Stories" by Lori Gordon, August 7-29 with the opening reception Friday, Aug 7, 5-9pm. Lori was originally a landscape painter on the Gulf Coast when Katrina destroyed her home and studio. Since then Lori has created recycled art from the rubbles of Hurricane Katrina. Then Hurricane Gustavo hit flooding the trailer she was living in while rebuilding her home. Never one to complain, Lori says the hurricanes have given her a new way to see art. On her "Stories" exhibition, Gordon says "Art communicates stories in a fashion much different from the spoken or written word. In this series, I have used art to explore and embrace the story. I am particularly drawn to the expression of the spiritual in our experience, and the manifestation of religious stories in our lives." Sumner & Dene, located in Downtown Albuquerque at 517 Central NW, is open weekdays 10-6, Saturdays 10-5. For more information go to www.sumnerdene.com or call 505-842-1400.

Gay men claim discrimination in El Paso

2009-07-08T17:11:00.002-06:00

From KVIA.com

EL PASO -- A group of gay men say they were discriminated against by security guards and El Paso police officers because of their sexual orientation.

It was a late Sunday night when Carlos Diaz de Leon and a group of his friends decided to stop by Chico's Tacos for a late-night dinner.

They said they were minding their own business when security guards inside asked them to leave.

"Two of my friends wereactually were kissing," Carlos said. Two of Carlos' male friends, that is.

"We went, sat down to eat our food and security guards came and said that if they kept doing that, they were going to throw us all out of the restaurant."

Carlos said he then asked them why? Their response, according to Carlos: "They said 'we didn't allow that gay stuff to go on here.' "

Read the whole story here at http://www.kvia.com/Global/story.asp?S=10659225

NM Gay Mens Chorus Summer Fling July 18th

2009-07-05T08:27:00.001-06:00

Does an evening of music, dessert, wine, friendship, and the chance to purchase exciting items at a silent auction appeal to you? What if all of this supported a group that enriches the lives of so many people — the New Mexico Gay Men’s Chorus?

You’ll have the opportunity to do all of these things by attending the Summer Fling on Saturday, July 18.

Our Summer Fling will be the major fundraising event this year to support the New Mexico Gay Men’s Chorus, and we would love to have you there.

Saturday, July 18, 7:30 PM
National Museum of Nuclear Science and History
601 Eubank Blvd. SE
$10 admission (free for dinner attendees)

Entertainment • Dessert • Silent Auction

The evening will be great fun with music by Deian McBryde and the Pretty Girl Orchestra. A silent auction will include a wide range of offerings at a great value. A few of the items include season tickets to the Santa Fe Opera; Abiquiu Chamber Music Festival tickets which includes lodging at the Black Mesa B&B and dinner with the artists; pottery by the incomparable Barbara Knutson; a private concert in your home by one of New Mexico’s up-and-coming opera singers. There will also be dinners, massages, spa days, piano tuning, get-away nights, and the list goes on and on.

The 2010 Season for the New Mexico Gay Men’s Chorus is going to be one of the best in its 27-year history. Come help us kick off that season by attending the Summer Fling and showing your support.

Please visit our website for more information at
www.nmgmc.org/summerfling

Pride Month Wraps With Las Cruces & Santa Fe

2009-06-28T10:08:00.000-06:00

By David Stocum

Saturday June 27th marked the end of the 2009 Pride season with record setting events in Santa Fe and Las Cruces.

Nearly 2000 people enjoyed a sunny, breezy day in Pioneer Women’s Park. This years Southern New Mexico Pride included several new events making for a weekend long celebration. The celebration began Friday with Drag Bingo at the NMSU Golf Course Clubhouse and concluded with a Pool Party at the Desert Hills Pool Sunday evening. Southern New Mexico Pride has grown every year for the last five years and is the largest GLBTQ event in the southern part of the state.

Santa Fe Pride moved from the Plaza to the new Railyard Plaza which allowed for more vendors and a first time beer garden. The larger area lead to the creation of family areas and an area for adults only allowing everyone to create their own experience. Officials report the crowd was one of the largest in recent memory. Attendees report the new location was a success and they were looking forward to next year.

The weekend events also served as commemorations of the Stonewall riots which occurred 40 years ago on June 28th.

FTMI New Mexico Chapter Commends Lawmakers for Introduction of Inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act

2009-06-26T11:06:00.000-06:00

Albuquerque NM, June 24, 2009: FTMInternational Albuquerque Chapter applauded US lawmakers today for introducing an inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA), which would protect LGBT employees from workplace discrimination. The bill, which enjoys bi-partisan support in Congress, would add orientation and gender identity to existing federal employment non-discrimination laws.

FTMI Albuquerque President Adrien Lawyer stated, "We urge our Congressional representatives to co-sponsor this important worker protection legislation."

Currently, 12 states have LGBT-inclusive nondiscrimination protections, covering nearly 40 percent of Americans. And, according to numerous surveys, large majorities of likely voters in the U.S. support federal employment non-discrimination laws to protect LGBT people. Polling data from 2006 shows that voters are more likely to support a candidate who votes for an LGBT discrimination law than they are to vote against.

FTMInternational President Rabbi Levi Alter added, "For all who want to contribute to America through gainful employment and hard, honest work, it is vitally important to ensure that all employees have access to a fair and equitable workplace."

ABQ NPR Station to Air Local GLBTQ Radio Show

2009-06-21T10:28:00.001-06:00

Friday June 26th from 8:30 am to 9:00 am KUNM will be having a GLBTQA Radio Show. This half-hour show is hopefully the first of many more. On this show the host will discuss the Domestic Partners Bill before the New Mexico Legislature with Linda Siegle.

It will also discuss the hour long on Sunday June 28th from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm. This show will feature Shannon Minter, lead counsel on Prop 8 and many more local LGBTQA advocates.

EQNM is working throughout the state to have full recognition of all LGBTQ relationships. Without marriage equality or domestic partnerships, LGBTQ individuals and same-sex couples are forced to pay expensive legal fees in order to create a patchwork of basic legal protections, like durable power of attorney and living wills. Domestic partnerships are one step to providing legal protections necessary for families to care for their loved ones.

While not everyone in our community wishes to marry, everyone deserves the freedom to make this choice. As a community, LGBTQ individuals and families deserve to be treated with dignity, respect, and to have equal protection of the laws. Being excluded from this right not only deprives same-sex couples of critical legal protections, it also demeans and stigmatizes same-sex couples and encourages discrimination.

Please listen to these show and call KUNM afterwards 505.277.4806 to encourage them to support a local GLTBQA show.

For more information about Equality New Mexico, please contact Jordon at jordon@eqnm.org.

Southern New Mexico Pride to Feature Local Musicians

2009-06-21T09:08:00.001-06:00

LAS CRUCES – As part of the annual parade and picnic sponsored by Southern New Mexico Pride, local music performers Randy Granger, Belle and Alister M will perform live at the WIA building across from Pioneer Women’s Park on Saturday, June 27th, 2009 starting at 11:00 a.m.

Randy Granger is a singer-songwriter, composer, independent recording artist and workshop presenter. He has earned recognition for his songwriting, flute playing, composing, production, published poetry and is a winner/nominee in several New Mexico Music Industry Awards including “Best Flutist,” Traditional” and “New Age” recordings. “You hear in the music of Native American Randy Granger – elements of New Mexico...sage and mesquite, deserts and canyons, the Rio Grande River and stunning sunsets. The Southwest is in his blood and in his soul.” (Notes and Chords Magazine) Randy Granger is scheduled to perform from 11:00 a.m. – 11:30 a.m.

Alister M is an indie rock band consisting of members Steve MacIntyre, Reed Elliott, Janelle Borsberry, Sam Greene, and Ian McNiel. The band’s current album is “The Year of Independence”. Some of the songs on this album were recorded in the summer of 2008 in a recording studio in Phoenix, Arizona. The tracks were then mixed by recording/mixing guru Mike Major who has worked with such bands as: At the Drive In, Sparta, and Sleepercar. Alister M is scheduled to perform from 2:15 p.m. – 2:45 p.m.

Belle is a local musician who lives in the Las Cruces area, and has played on KRWG, performed at Earth Day 2008 and various local coffee houses. Belle is scheduled to perform from 1:30 p.m. – 2:00 p.m.

All three performing artists can be found on MySpace.com. The performances are free and open to the public.

The parade and picnic are from 10:00 a.m. to 3: 00 p.m., and are part of a weekend of scheduled events, including Drag Bingo on Friday, June 26, 7:00 p.m. at the NMSU Golf Course Clubhouse; a Pride Dance Saturday, June 27, 8:00 p.m. at Eddie’s Bar & Grill; a PFLAG-sponsored film (Were The World Mine) on Sunday, June 28, 10:00 a.m., at the Fountain Theater; and a Pride Pool Party Sunday evening, 6:30 p.m. at the Desert Hills Pool.

RainbowVison Santa Fe Celebrates Three Years

2009-06-21T08:54:00.002-06:00

The last week of June marks many special events including worldwide Gay Pride and the birthday of RainbowVision Santa Fe, the world’s first full service Community for the Second Fifty Years.

This year marks RainbowVision Santa Fe’s third birthday, an occasion for much celebration. RainbowVision is the only full service LGBT and allies “Community for the Second Fifty Years” offering an active social environment for members who live completely independently through assisted living. The 146 residences are centered around the El Centro clubhouse where members and their guests enjoy fine dining at Garbo’s, incredible events at the acclaimed SilverStarlight Lounge and a top of the line fitness experience at the Billie Jean King Fitness Center and Spa.

RainbowVision Santa Fe has become a leader for the senior housing industry, in addition to providing groundbreaking services for the LGBT and allied community. Moving away from the entry fee model, so prevalent in past decades, RainbowVision properties has found success in a no fee model. This gives the Baby Boomer and beyond population greater flexibility in determining their futures. In addition to ground breaking services like Functional Fitness, A Matter of Balance© training, MS support groups, etc., RainbowVision has redefined the language and services offered in a way that is reflective of the self image experienced by this demographic.

Upcoming at The Rio Grande

2009-06-21T08:48:00.001-06:00

RIO GRANDE THEATRE
CALENDAR OF EVENTS
JULY 2009

Saturday, July 18
Missoula Children’s Theatre presents “Robinson Crusoe”
Hula-dancing Chameleons and other wacky characters from Friday’s Seaside Resort will take center stage as Missoula Children’s Theatre brings their annual production to Las Cruces, starring local children ranging in age from 5 to 18. Showtimes for Robinson Crusoe are 3pm and 7pm. Tickets are $6 for adults and $2 for children. For more information or to reserve tickets, visit www.RioGrandeTheatre.com.

Thursday, July 16
Benefit Screening “The Sharp End”
Early in June of this year, the rock climbing community was rocked by news that three American climbers had been lost in an avalanche in an isolated part of Southwest China. After several days of search and rescue, two bodies were recovered, while the third remains unfound. To help fund the continuing search, as well as the memorial services for the three climbers, NMSU Outdoor Recreation will screen Sender Film’s “The Sharp End,” an adrenaline-soaked journey up the world’s most challenging walls. Showtime is 7pm. Tickets are $10. For more information call 575-646-4746 or visit www.AdventureFilm.org

Friday, July 24
Las Cruces High School Theatre Arts presents “The Odd Couple”
In Neil Simon’s Broadway masterpiece, fastidious neat freak Felix and habitual slob Oscar find themselves unexpectedly sharing an apartment together, leading to inevitable conflicts and good-natured laughs. A one-night-only performance for the entire family. Tickets are $5 at the door. For more information or to reserve tickets, visit www.RioGrandeTheatre.com.

Every Other Tuesday at the Rio Grande Theatre
July 14 – Doug Randle: Guitar & Vocals
July 28 – La Cella Bella: Women’s Cello Quartet
Please note: Every Other Tuesday performances always begin at 5:30pm and are free to the public.

On Exhibit in the El Paso Electric and Caroline de Mesilla Galleries
Marie Siegrist (Watercolors) and Joe Dominick (Photography)
The works of two very different artists will fill the El Paso Electric and the Caroline de Mesilla galleries, beginning with a reception for the artists to coincide with the First Friday Downtown Arts Ramble, on July 3, 2009, beginning at 5pm. Siegrist’s paintings encompass a wide variety of subjects, including up-close nature studies, floral themes, landscapes, doorways, windows and candid moments of life. Dominick works in the black and white silver print medium, using a 4x5 large format camera. His works have been seen as far afield as Chicago, Houston and Santa Fe. The exhibit will run through July 31, 2009.

For clarification, photos or additional information, please contact the Rio Grande Theatre Manager, David Salcido, at 575-523-6403.

From the New York Times - Why the Gay Rights Movement Has No National Leader

2009-06-21T08:44:00.001-06:00

Week in Review
Why the Gay Rights Movement Has No National Leader
By JEREMY W. PETERS
Published: June 21, 2009
Many of the battles were fought by local activists close to home.

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/21/weekinreview/21peters.html

From the New Mexican - Santa Fe Pride: A 'Golden' twist for a beloved sitcom

2009-06-21T08:27:00.002-06:00

Santa Fe Pride: A 'Golden' twist for a beloved sitcom

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Community Leaders and Activists Create Movements Future at Summit

2009-06-07T11:34:00.001-06:00

By David Stocum

Approximately 100 LGBT community leaders and activists assembled at the UNM Law School on June 6, 2009 for the Summit on LGBT Rights New Mexico. Saturday’s event was the first such summit since 2003. The summit was organized by an Ad Hoc committee including representatives from several LGBT and ally organizations along with individual activists. Attendees represented a broad range of organizations and geographic areas including Las Cruces, Alamogordo, Mora, Albuquerque and Santa Fe.

The morning was devoted to assessing where the LGBT rights movement in New Mexico is, how we got here with the afternoon devoted to what the next steps should be.

Havens Levitt facilitated an interactive presentation of the history of the New Mexico LGBT movement to lead the day off. One striking point of this history is that New Mexico in many areas has been in the lead on issues like employment non-discrimination. A recap of the 2009 Legislative session was presented by Rep. Mimi Stewart and Linda Siegle, EQNM Lobbyist. Stewart and Siegle reported that the Senate continues to be the roadblock to relationship recognition. Rep. Stewart said that she had the votes to pass the Domestic Partners Rights and Responsibilities Act if it had gotten out of the Senate. They detailed the drama filled process of SB12 and its ultimate failure to pass the Senate. Siegle reported that a new bill separating Domestic Partnership from the Marriage statutes is being drafted by the Legislative Council Service. The new bill is intended to win over critics of SB12 including the Catholic Church. The morning session was wrapped up with Shannon Minter, Lead Counsel California Marriage Cases and Lynn Perls an Albuquerque attorney who helped draft the Domestic Partners Rights and Responsibilities Act providing information on litigation and legislation. This session provided perspective on the risks and benefits of each approach. It also put the New Mexico movement in context of the national LGBT rights movement.

Andrew Gans and Sonia Bettez facilitated the afternoon session which focused on the future of the LGBT rights movement in New Mexico. Small groups looked at the questions of where do you want our movement to be, what’s most important to you and what is needed to get there? All summit attendees used the results of the small groups to set some priority areas for going forward. A second round of small groups began creating action plans based on those priorities. These action plans were then reported to the larger group and actions begun.

The summit was followed by a rally on Civic Plaza in downtown Albuquerque and a reception for Equal Rights Champions at the 4^th Street Nightclub.

Southern New Mexico Pride – “40 Years After Stonewall: Partners in Pride” on June 27th

2009-06-04T22:30:00.002-06:00

Las Cruces - Southern New Mexico Pride will hold its annual Parade and Picnic on June 27^th, 2009 from 10:00 a.m. – 3:00 p.m. at Pioneer Women’s Park. The theme of this year’s event is “40 Years After Stonewall: Partners in Pride” to coincide with the 40^th anniversary of the Stonewall riots which spurred the modern GLBT movement. The event begins with a walking parade through downtown Las Cruces at 10:00 a.m. Participants will gather at the park at 9:50 a.m.

The afternoon will include a DJ and dancing, live entertainment with local performing artists Randy Granger, Belle and Alister M in the WIA building across the street from the park beginning at 11:00 a.m.

Join the Queer bake-off from 12 noon to 1:00 p.m. Participants are encouraged to enter their favorite recipes in select categories which will then be auctioned off.

Various vendors, crafts and food will be available. And, kids can play in the Rainbow Rugrats area with games and jumping balloon.

The parade and picnic are part of a weekend of scheduled events, including Drag Bingo on Friday, June 26, 7:00 p.m. at the NMSU Golf Course Clubhouse, a Pride Dance Saturday, June 27, 8:00 p.m. at Eddie’s Bar & Grill, a PFLAG-sponsored film on Sunday, June 28, 10:00 a.m., at the Fountain Theater, and a Pride Pool Party Sunday evening, 6:30 p.m. at the Dessert Hills Pool.

For more information, please see www.southernnmpride.org

LGBT Rights Summit Adds Events

2009-06-03T07:01:00.002-06:00

More events have been added to June 6 - it will be a full day. Organizers are expecting over 100 participants at the Summit from 25 communities (as of now) throughout NM.

10:00am - 4:30pm - Summit - UNM Law School (details below)

5:00pm - Press Conference to report on outcomes of Summit - Civic Plaza, Downtown Albuquerque

5:00pm - 6:00pm - Rally to protest California Prop 8 Supreme Court Ruling. Civic Plaza, Downtown Albuquerque

5:30 to 7:30 p.m.
Equal Rights Champions Reception
Saturday June 6th – following the Summit
4th Street Nightclub – 109 4th St. NW (about a block south of Civic Plaza)
Suggested Donation $20
(All summit registrants will receive one complimentary ticket)

All New Mexico Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered and Allied Organizations are encouraged to participate by sending a representative. Individual activists are also encouraged to attend! A facilitated community discussion will take place in order to build support around next steps for our community.

Learn about current and future efforts in regards to LGBT Equality:
Domestic Partnership Legislation
Marriage Litigation
Putting the focus on Marriage Equality in New Mexico
What we have accomplished so far...

The Summit on LGBT Rights in New Mexico is being hosted by an ad-hoc steering committee of activists who wish to engage the larger LGBTA community in a conversation about our future.

They have secured a discounted room rate at Sandia Courtyard Hotel and Convention Center starting at $54/night plus tax. You may contact the hotel directly at (505) 296-4852 and reference code LNOP.

For more information, or to RSVP—please contact:
summitlgbtNM@gmail.com or call (505) 266-3578

Santa Fe Lesbian Summer Evening Gayla! 6-20-09

2009-05-27T09:06:00.000-06:00

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Randy Granger to perform at Southern New Mexico Pride fundraiser June 6, 2009, 7 P.M. to 10 P.M.

2009-05-27T09:02:00.004-06:00

LAS CRUCES – Award winning singer-songwriter, musician Randy Granger will be performing at a house-concert to raise funds for Southern New Mexico Pride.

The concert, which includes libations and prizes, will be held at a private residence in Las Cruces on June 6^th, 7-10 p.m. Suggested donation is $20. Attendees are encouraged to bring their own folding chairs or blankets. No alcoholic beverages will be provided.

Randy Granger is a singer-songwriter, composer, recording artist and performing musician. His unique “Southwest Americana” style blends elements of Native American, Folk and world music. He has earned recognition for his songwriting, flute playing, composing, production and poetry from the New Mexico Music Industry Awards, the Native American Music Awards and the Great American Song Awards. His CD A Place Called Peace received a “Lifestyle Award” nomination for “Best Native American Album” from the New Age broadcasting industry. NPR’s All Things Considered profiled Randy in 2007 for his music on the ethereal Hang drum.

Notes and Chords Magazine said of Randy’s music, “You hear in the music of Native American Randy Granger – elements of New Mexico...sage and mesquite, deserts and canyons, the Rio Grande River and stunning sunsets. The Southwest is in his blood and in his soul.”

Volunteers and vendors are now being accepted for the celebration, “40 Years After Stonewall: Partners In Pride,” on Saturday, June 27, from 10 a.m. -3 p.m. at Pioneer Women’s Park.

For more information or directions, call 575-496-8070 or e-mail Jeff Stevens at jffrystevens@yahoo.com.

Court upholds Prop 8; State continues to recognize 18,000 marriages

2009-05-26T17:27:00.001-06:00

From Lambda Legal

(San Francisco) May 26, 2009 —Today, in a 6 to 1 decision, the California Supreme Court upheld Proposition 8, the ballot measure that eliminated the right of same sex couples to marry. In the ruling authored by Chief Justice Ronald George, the Court stated "We emphasize only that among the various constitutional protections recognized in the Marriage Cases as available to same-sex couples, it is only the designation of marriage — albeit significant — that has been removed by this initiative measure." At the same time, the court unanimously ruled that the more than 18,000 marriages that took place between June 16 and November 4, 2008 continue to be fully valid and recognized by the state of California. The decision reaffirmed the Court's prior holding that sexual orientation is subject to the highest level of protection under the California Constitution.

In a strongly worded dissent, Justice Carlos Moreno stated, "The rule the majority crafts today not only allows same-sex couples to be stripped of the right to marry that this court recognized in the Marriage Cases, it places at risk the state constitutional rights of all disfavored minorities. It weakens the status of our state Constitution as a bulwark of fundamental rights for minorities protected from the will of the majority."

Las Cruces Artist Presents Retrospective

2009-05-24T15:12:00.008-06:00

As a brief retrospective spanning the years of the late 60's through 2009, a survey of Wayne Carl Huber's art will be on exhibit during the month of June at the Blue Gate Fine Art Gallery, 3111 N. Main St. on the Downtown Mall in Las Cruces. The opening celebration will be held on the First Friday Ramble: June 5, 5-7:00PM at which Wayne will meet and greet visitors and patrons. He will also give a gallery talk the next day from 11:00AM until noon, when he will share information about the thirty plus pieces representing over forty years of diversity, all of which are priced for purchase.

Besides being a creative artist, he has had an equally long profession as an instructor. He holds a Bachelor of Art Education from the Eastern Michigan University and Masters of Fine Arts Degree from the University of Arizona. Wayne has also studied architecture and liberal arts.

Huber's works embrace a variety of media, subject matter, and styles. They have been accepted in many juried shows. Notable judges who have designated his works as prize worthy are artist, Elaine De Kooning and Dr. John A. Richardson, author of Art: The Way It Is. His paintings are in many private and permanent collections. Locally he had been represented at the JME Gallery.

Flo Hosa Dougherty's overview is that Wayne has been perpetually on the contemporary edge regardless of the date on the calendar. He is as timely a painter for today as he was yesteryear. His individuality sets the mood, his inventive nature synchronizes and his daring controls the compositional factors. His canvases offer strong direct statements which seem to broaden and intensify the impact for the viewer.

Presently Wayne has adopted Las Cruces as his hometown with an exuberance. He is active as an art educator for the Las Cruces Museum of Art and will be teaching summer classes at the EI Paso Museum of Art. He pours energy into the community as a board member of the Downtown Las Cruces Partnership and serves on its Design Committee. He belongs to the NEA, is vice president of the Alameda Depot Civic Assoc. and is a member of The Mesilla Valley Jazz and Blues Society.

Comediennes Vickie Shaw and Jennie McNulty are coming to Albuquerque

2009-05-23T12:01:00.004-06:00

Houston Native and Stand Up Comedian Vickie Shaw is teaming up with fellow comic Jennie McNulty for a fantastic night of Stand Up Comedy and Improvisation. You won’t want to miss these funny women, both recently voted to the top 10 Funniest Lesbians in America. Each will perform stand up separately and then play together doing hysterical improvisation based on suggestions from the audience. Come enjoy the show and celebrate the release of Vickie's new DVD, "You Can Take The Girl Outta Texas"

Vickie Shaw - Vickie Shaw comes to Albuquerque with her slow paced (she's southern), incredibly endearing, (she's southern), sharp, don't mess with her (she's southern!), comedy. Vickie starred in her own one woman show on MTV Network’s LOGO channel. (http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/vickie_shaw/series.jhtml) She has been seen on Comedy Central’s “Premium Blend” and was one of the stars of the award winning film, “Laughing Matters More” (www.alloutfilms.com). She performs several times a year with Olivia Cruises and Resorts and has headlined countless Pride events throughout the country. Vickie doesn't have to go far from home for material - as a recovering SoB (Southern Baptist) and out lesbian mother, she's successfully raised two sons (one of whom is married and just gave her a "two perfect granddaughters"), has a college daughter and all of them are living at home in the "Compound", and a "husbian" in Sgt. Patch. Yeah there's enough material there to fill a few hours. Vickie has performed in almost every State in the US, and had headlined in too many venues to list here but trust us, this girl's been around.

Jennie McNulty - can currently be seen on MTV Network’s LOGO channel in the comedy special “One Night Stand Up”. She can also be seen bi-weekly in her walking talk show, "Jennie McNulty Presents: Walking Funny With…” on LOGO’s AfterEllen website (http://www.afterellen.com/taxonomy/term/3789 ). She has traveled the world doing comedy – literally. In addition to headlining in comedy clubs all over the US and Canada, she has entertained the troops in Iraq and Afghanistan. She also does comedy in more peaceful settings as one of the favorites of Olivia Cruises and Resorts. Jennie spends her summer seasons performing nightly in Provincetown, MA and has performed at The Toronto Gay and Lesbian Comedy Festival; The “Dinah Shore” event; and dozens of Pride events coast to coast. Jennie also produces the popular “Rainbow Comedy Night” in Ventura, CA as well as the Gold! Comedy Hour in West Hollywood. McNulty is a regular at Harrah’s Casino in Las Vegas. She was also featured as a physical trainer on the hit NBC Show "Starting Over." AND, she plays women’s tackle football for the California Quake in the Independent Women’s Football League. To find out more about her LOGO Television special visit: http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/one_night_stand_up/series.jhtml

Jennie McNulty and Vickie Shaw will be performing at MCC Albuquerque 1103 Texas St. NE Albuquerque, NM 87110 on June 5, 2009 at 8:00 PM. General Admission tickets are $20. Advance tickets available through Brown Paper Tickets at www.BrownPaperTickets.com 1-877-278-4842. Buy your tickets early before the show sells out!

Summit on LGBT Rights in New Mexico

2009-05-21T21:17:00.002-06:00

Saturday June 6, 2009
10:00am - 5:00pm
University of New Mexico
School of Law Room 2402
1117 Stanford, NE - Albuquerque, NM

All New Mexico Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered and Allied Organizations are encouraged
to participate by sending a representative. A facilitated community discussion will take place in
order to build support around next steps for our community.

Learn about current and future efforts in regards to LGBT Equality:
• Domestic Partnership Legislation
• Marriage Litigation
• Putting the focus on Marriage Equality in New Mexico
• What we have accomplished so far...

The Summit on LGBT Rights in New Mexico is being hosted by an ad-hoc steering committee of
activists who wish to engage the larger LGBTA community in a conversation about our future.

Organizers have secured a discounted room rate at Sandia Courtyard Hotel and Convention Center starting at $54/night plus tax. You may contact the hotel directly at (505) 296-4852 and reference code LNOP.
For more information, or to RSVP—please contact: summitlgbtNM@gmail.com or call (505) 266-3578

Randy Granger to perform at Southern New Mexico Pride fundraiser

2009-05-19T21:12:00.003-06:00

LAS CRUCES – Award winning singer-songwriter, musician Randy Granger will be performing at a house-concert to raise funds for Southern New Mexico Pride.

The concert, which includes libations and prizes, will be held at a private residence in Las Cruces on June 6th, 7-10 p.m. Suggested donation is $20. Attendees are encouraged to bring their own folding chairs or blankets. No alcoholic beverages will be provided.

Randy Granger is a singer-songwriter, composer, recording artist and performing musician. His unique “Southwest Americana” style blends elements of Native American, Folk and world music. He has earned recognition for his songwriting, flute playing, composing, production and poetry from the New Mexico Music Industry Awards, the Native American Music Awards and the Great American Song Awards. His CD A Place Called Peace received a “Lifestyle Award” nomination for “Best Native American Album” from the New Age broadcasting industry. NPR’s All Things Considered profiled Randy in 2007 for his music on the ethereal Hang drum.

Notes and Chords Magazine said of Randy’s music, “You hear in the music of Native American Randy Granger – elements of New Mexico...sage and mesquite, deserts and canyons, the Rio Grande River and stunning sunsets. The Southwest is in his blood and in his soul.”

Volunteers and vendors are now being accepted for the celebration, “40 Years After Stonewall: Partners In Pride,” on Saturday, June 27, from 10 a.m. -3 p.m. at Pioneer Women’s Park.

For more information or directions, e-mail Jeff Stevens at jffrystevens@yahoo.com

International Day Against Homophobia - May 17, 2009

2009-05-17T08:31:00.001-06:00

26th annual International AIDS Candlelight Memorial - May 17th

2009-05-14T07:53:00.001-06:00

You are invited to join the community of Southern New Mexico for the 26th annual International AIDS Candlelight Memorial on Sunday May 17, 2009.

The Candlelight Memorial is the largest and oldest grassroots mobilization campaign for HIV/AIDS awareness in the world. The purpose is to honor all those affected and infected by the AIDS pandemic, as well as to educate about HIV/AIDS and the prevention of HIV/AIDS.

The Memorial, sponsored by Camino de Vida Center for HIV Services will be held in the pavilion at Young Park in Las Cruces , NM beginning at 7:00pm. Because of your compassion for people living with HIV/AIDS we invited you to offer a few remarks on how it has impacted your life and/or what can be done to prevent HIV/AIDS.

In 2008, some 2000 memorials were held in 115 countries around the world. Please join us on May 17th as we join communities around the world as we remember those we have lost and dedicating ourselves to fight for a WORLD WITHOUT AIDS.

From New Mexico FBIHOP:State Dems may add gay marriage to party platform

2009-04-23T06:54:00.002-06:00

State Dems may add gay marriage to party platform
by: LP
Wed Apr 22, 2009 at 12:01:45 PM MDT

With the recent additions of Iowa and Vermont (not to mention Washington D.C.) to the ranks of states that allow same-sex marriage, some New Mexico Democrats hope the Land of Enchantment joins that short list soon.
Some New Mexico Democrats are pushing for the legalization of same-sex marriage to be added to the Democratic Party platform. In this year's session, domestic partnership failed after a floor vote in the Senate, but Gov. Bill Richardson is open to adding the domestic partnership proposal to a special session later this year.

"If the marriage resolution passed, that should send some message to legislators that action should be taken," Liz Stefanics, a state party central committee member, Santa Fe County commissioner and former state senator, told the Albuquerque Journal.

Full Story Click Here

DANCING ON AIR @ The Rio Grande Theatre Saturday, May 23, 2009

2009-04-08T17:50:00.002-06:00

Las Cruces, NM (April 8, 2009) – The spirit of dance, with its graceful simulations of flight, is the essence of a group native to the Mesilla Valley. Project IN Motion brings the world of Modern Dance and Aerial Arts together in a concert that literally defies gravity. Celebrating ten years of Aerial Dance--in which performers climb, twist and tie strips of fabric around their bodies, high above the stage—Project IN Motion’s Professional Dance and Aerial Arts Company has wowed audiences across the country with feats of balletic mid-air poetry. Now they bring their finesse and fabric know-how to the Rio Grande Theatre, on May 23, 2009, at 7:30pm.

In an evening that is sure to keep the audience enthralled, professional dancers Hilary McDaniel-Douglas and Joseph Putman will bring their aerial expertise to the stage through social, political and poetic commentary, uniquely wrapped into seamless aerial fabric performances. El Paso native Sarah Navarrete, now dancing professionally in New York, will lead dancers Alyx Sanchez and Stephan Pohuski in renditions of Project IN Motion aerial and terrestrial dance favorites. The choreography of local physical poet Mei Ling Po McKay and PIM’s Billy Blanken will also be performed.

Come join Project IN Motion’s celebration of a Decade of Dance and Aerial Arts! Tickets are $12 for students & seniors; $15 for adults and are available at the Rio Grande Theatre box office or at the door. Call (575) 523-6403 to purchase by phone. Further information on Project IN Motion can be found on-line at www.projectinmotion.com

NY TIMES: Gay Rights Groups Celebrate Victories in Marriage Push

2009-04-08T17:35:00.002-06:00

By ABBY GOODNOUGH
Published: April 7, 2009

MONTPELIER, Vt. — Gay-rights groups say that momentum from back-to-back victories on same-sex marriage in Vermont and Iowa could spill into other states, particularly since at least nine other legislatures are considering measures this year to allow marriage between gay couples.

A crowd gathered in the House chamber on Tuesday to await the outcome of a vote to override the governor’s veto.

The Vermont Legislature on Tuesday overrode Gov. Jim Douglas’s veto of a bill allowing gay couples to marry, mustering one more vote than needed to preserve the measure.

The step makes Vermont the first state to allow same-sex marriage through legislative action instead of a court ruling, and comes less than a week after the Iowa Supreme Court legalized same-sex marriages in that state.

New York, New Jersey, Maine and New Hampshire are among the states where such proposals have gained legislative support in recent months.

“This is a reminder to those legislatures that they should finish the job,” said Evan Wolfson, executive director of Freedom to Marry, a national advocacy group based in New York. “Contrary to the claims made by the opponents of equality, it’s not just judges, it’s not just the coasts, and it’s not just going away.”

Full Story Click Here

National Gay and Lesbian Task Force hails historic Iowa Supreme Court ruling granting the freedom to marry to same-sex couples

2009-04-03T11:11:00.000-06:00

WASHINGTON, April 3 — The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force hails today’s Iowa Supreme Court unanimous ruling in Varnum v. Brien saying that same-sex couples are legally entitled to marry. The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force was a signatory to a larger amicus brief supporting the marriage equality position. Additionally, Task Force organizers were recently sent to Iowa where they worked with One Iowa’s field staff to grow the group’s volunteer base that was active with One Iowa’s legislative advocacy in support of the freedom to marry.

Statement by Rea Carey, Executive Director
National Gay and Lesbian Task Force

“This ruling marks another watershed moment in the struggle for full equality. No longer will same-sex couples have their relationships treated as less than equal by the state. The court rightly affirmed that no loving committed couple should be denied marriage and the critical protections only marriage can provide. This ruling also affirms our common humanity by providing same-sex couples with the opportunity to participate in the shared hopes and dreams of making a public commitment to the person they love. We are thrilled that equality has come to Iowa!

“We extend our heartfelt thanks to the plaintiffs and groups that made today’s victory possible, especially to Lambda Legal for serving as lead legal counsel, and One Iowa for its statewide public education and advocacy to promote the freedom to marry. We know that many fair-minded Iowans — and fair-minded people across the country — will be celebrating with us in response to today’s decision.”

To learn more about the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, visit www.theTaskForce.org.

Domestic partnerships advance to full Senate Prospects for landmark legislation improve dramatically in one day

2009-02-16T18:27:00.000-07:00

By Gwyneth Doland 2/16/09 4:21 PM

SANTA FE — After a dramatic set of votes in the Senate Judiciary Committee, domestic partnership legislation moved toward consideration by the full Senate minutes ago.

Sen. Bernadette Sanchez, an Albuquerque Democrat, cast the critical vote allowing the bill to proceed.

Read the full New Mexico Independent story at the link below:

http://newmexicoindependent.com/18774/domestic-partnerships-move-to-full-senate

Albuquerque Pride Seeks Volunteer Pageant Director

2009-02-15T14:08:00.000-07:00

Are you a highly motivated, results-oriented team player looking for an opportunity to use your creativity and planning skills in an exciting non-profit organization?

Albuquerque Pride, INC is a non-profit organization dedicated to(insert mission statement). We are looking for a talented volunteer to direct our annual Pride Pageant.

Job Description:
Each year Albuquerque Pride, INC produces our Pride Pageant in order to crown royalty for the annual Pride Festival. T his year, the Pride Pageant will be held May 8th and 9th at the Radisson Hotel, in Albuquerque. The successful candidate would be responsible for staging and directing the pageant.

Education and Training:
High school; art, design, entertainment, and/or business backgrounds

Required:
This position requires creativity and innovation; exceptional leadership, organizational, planning and tracking skills, superior attention to detail; outstanding interpersonal and collaboration skills; excellent written and verbal communication skills; and strong critical thinking and problem-solving skills. Individual must be comfortable working in a close knit team environment.
Typical activities include:
· Creating a script/staging pageant competition
· Selecting and recruiting volunteers for crews, performers, musicians, etc.
· Managing time and organizing people and space
· Attending production meetings with producers
· Conducting rehearsals
· Communicating and liaising with all parties involved, including contestants, the creative team, the production team and producers

Desired:
Candidate should have an interest in Albuquerque Pride, INC and be dedicated to assisting us in accomplishing our goals and missions. Previous experience in pageant directing is highly desired. Prior employment as a director or assistant director is highly desired. An understanding of basic lighting and sound requirements is preferred. Previous20choreography experience is beneficial.

Applicants must submit a resume to abqpride@aol.com no later than March 4th to be considered for the position.

Albuquerque Pride June 11-13, 2009
2009 International Theme:
" Your rights, Our Rights, Human Rights"

House Committee Appointments Announced! Some Positive Signs.

2009-02-15T13:32:00.000-07:00

Austin, Texas (February 12, 2009) - The new Speaker of the Texas House, Rep. Joe Straus of San Antonio, has just announced standing committee appointments for the 81st Legislative Session. Straus, who is generally considered to be a moderate Republican, ascended to the Speakership with the support of the majority of Democratic house members. Naming the committee appointments was widely believed to be the first real test of Straus’ leadership and his bipartisanship.

Equality Texas is encouraged by the Speaker's appointments.

Straus has named several ardent pro-equality advocates as chair or vice-chair of legislative committees likely to review equality legislation. These include: Rep. Senfronia Thompson as Chair of Local & Consent Calendars, Rep. Pete Gallego as Chair of Criminal Jurisprudence, Rep. Elliott Naishtat as Vice-Chair of Public Health, Rep. Patrick Rose as Chair of Human Services, Rep. Mark Strama as Chair of Technology, Economic Development & Workforce; and Rep. Scott Hochberg as Vice-Chair of Public Education.

Other pro-equality advocates were appointed chair or vice-chair of committees that are unlikely to see bills in our legislative agenda. These include: Rep. Garnet Coleman as Chair of County Affairs, Rep. Donna Howard as Vice-Chair of Culture, Recreation & Tourism; Rep. Allen Vaught as Vice-Chair of Defense & Veterans Affairs, Rep. Jessica Farrar as Vice-Chair of Land & Resource Management, Rep. Rafael Anchia as Vice-Chair of Pension, Investments & Financial Services; Rep. Mike Villarreal as Vice-Chair of Redistricting, and Rep. Yvonne Davis as Chair of Urban Affairs.

While many of our well-qualified legislative supporters are absent from the places we’d like to see them, it was unreasonable to expect that the Speaker would rule based only on a pro-equality agenda. However, in most of those committees which will likely review equality-related legislation, we are confident that Equality Texas can work with those committee chairs to receive fair, reasonable, and timely hearings on our legislative agenda.

We have renewed hope for the chances of several bills in our legislative agenda (some filed, some yet to be filed). In a few cases, we have more concern about the prospects of a bill's success. However, it can easily be stated that committee appointments are no worse than the last several sessions, and likely a great deal better. Speaker Straus has stated that he has no taste for the wedge issue politics that have marked the last several legislative sessions. His list of committee chairs mostly reflects this.

Some of the committees have supportive membership, but historically non-supportive chairs - as in the case of Higher Education Chair Rep. Dan Branch. Branch's Dallas district is one of several house districts which defeated the 2005 marriage amendment, however Branch's voting record has been out-of-step with his district on legislation related to equality issues. It is conceivable that one of our legislative agenda bills, HB 861 providing for competitive insurance benefits for employees of the University of Texas and Texas A&M University Systems, could come before Branch's committee. If it does, it will be necessary to educate Rep. Branch and change his mind about the importance of equality to his constituents.

This is just one example of the importance of constituents coming to Equality Texas Lobby Day. Rep. Branch needs to see that his constituents support equality for all Texans. Every State Representative needs to see constituent support for equality. Lobby Day is on March 2, 2009.

Separation of Church, State & Hate

2009-02-15T13:30:00.000-07:00

Separation of Church, State & Hate: Religious agenda's devised to divide, not provide!
By Mekah Gordon, Ph.D.

Commentary: Opinions expressed are of the author and not necessarily SW LGBT Press or Normal Heart Community Ventures.

I've found it exceedingly easy to offend hypocrites, and thus shake them from their stoic perches.
It just takes a little bit of truth to power and the courage to be unpopular.
Dr. Mekah Gordon, Ph.D.

A lawful precedence must be established within all public and political domains, to enforce the Constitutional decree for the Separation of Church and State, without the deliberate interference from the incessant persecution from religious zealots. Their mean spirited addiction to selfishly write the "Rules" for a 21st Century free society must come to an end!

Why do certain followers of the Christian faith, relish in their unprogressive and provocative attacks toward other human beings, who interpret living one’s life as a freedom of choice, rather than based on another’s dictation of "self-righteous moral values?”
Who are they, to judge others? Are their lives more admirable, than those they criticize?
How is their devotion to this religious belief substantially justified?
Christianity was established on a foundation to embrace the teachings of acceptance and love by Jesus. However, in spite of everything he stood for, these “devotees” are still blind and void of compassion, understanding, sensitivity and respect for diversity.

Instead of pointing a pious judgmental finger, as well as voting against and denying Basic Human Civil Rights to any United States citizen, I’d suggest focusing on eliminating the malignant immorality within your own flock.
Begin, by recognizing that the Vatican has been suppressing the numerous prolongations of child abuse by Priests, in churches throughout the world, silently “paying off” these victims, who had the courage to come forward.
Focus on the factual revelation, that in order to cover up the appalling mental anguish suffered by innocent children, past and present, which was/is being inflicted by these sinister Priestly Pedophiles, the Vatican shamefully devised to condemn an entire diverse community, hoping to avoid an enormous internal scandal.

The hypocritical, unkind, self serving and perverse manifestation to relinquish the rights of others, is nothing more than a convenient smoke screen, under the guise of religions voracious appetite for power and control!

As United States Citizens, Taxpayers, Contributors to Society, Veterans, and first and foremost, Human Beings, we should NEVER have to "ask" for Equality!

STOP Religious Interference, from consistently manifesting their unconscionable, shamefully fascist and venomous discriminatory dictatorial agenda, preventing anyone they deem "different" from acquiring ALL the Freedoms as United States Citizens we are entitled to!

Transitionally Speaking: Quotes, From a Pioneering, Frontier Renaissance Woman and Visionary:

No, Patent on Love:
LOVE, has NO boundary.....
We must preserve, anyone's Basic Human Civil Rights, in having the Freedom to Choose a Life Partner.
LOVE, does Not discriminate, nor should it ever be defined, decreed, and/or restricted, as an entitlement, only, to a Man, & a Woman.

Diversity Education:
There is a pinnacle necessity, to establish Diversity Sensitivity, Understanding, and Respect Policies in ALL Governmental Agencies, in order STOP the incessant daily provocative persecution of GLBTI individuals, and/or anyone who are deemed "Different," by the Bullying, Harassment, and Hate, of unprogressive pariahs, in our world societies.

Freedom to Choose:
Absolutely NO ONE, in these United States of America, should ever have the "right" to deny and disallow anyone's freedom of choice, by proselytizing Religious beliefs within public venues and/or political arenas.
Nor, should it ever be incorporated constitutionally or otherwise decreed law of the land.
Opinions of the virtues of faith, concerning values of intent, should be restricted and proclaimed within dually sanctified Religious Houses of Worship.

Identical Liberties:
Denying Unequivocal Equality, along with Basic Human and Civil Rights inclusion, for those labeled as being "Different" within our society, is Unconscionable and Unacceptable.
Victims of violence, hatred, discrimination, bias, and unprogressive judgment, must never be subjected to and/or segregated as isolated entities, denied inalienable freedoms, from those who fervently pursue the same identical liberties!

Fear and Prejudice:
Anyone, who instigates others through fear and prejudice, utilizing this as a Political, and/or Religious tool, for a discriminatory agenda, abandoning any civil humanistic approach toward Diversity Sensitivity, Understanding, & the Respect of those deemed "Different," apparently lacks any sense of human compassion, and embrace's, a dictatorial, arrogant, & virulent mentality.

Stress Free Education:
It is the responsibility, obligation, & ultimate accountability of every School District, Teacher, Administrator, as well as it's Community, to ensure that all students receive a stress free education, without intimidation, bullying, harassment, discrimination, bias, hate, & judgment of any kind, whatsoever!

Peace and Unequivocal Equality ~
Dr. Mekah Gordon, Ph.D.
Pioneering, Frontier Renaissance Woman, & Visionary

Human Rights Advocate/Activist - Educator/Consultant - Freelance Writer-TG Issues - Former Santa Fe Regional Editor for the Southwest LGBT Press Newspaper - Member of the NMSPC {New Mexico Suicide Prevention Coalition}, Recipient, of the prestige's, "2007 Commitment to Care Award" from the Alliance for Gender Awareness - Full membership World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH) Formerly known as the Harry Benjamin Gender Dysphoria Association (HBIGDA), Former Executive Director - Emerald City Foundation (501c3 non-profit), Division of RainbowVision Properties, Santa Fe.

Founder/CEO ~
S. U. R. E. Foundation®
SUREducation@aol.com
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NEW MEXICO GLBTQ CENTERS PROJECT UPDATE

2009-02-15T13:29:00.000-07:00

BY RICHARD SCRAMSTAD

In light of recent community feedback, the New Mexico GLBTQ Centers project has had to take a step back in order to proceed to ensure long term sustainability. The community needs to be more involved and supportive, and not enough time had been planned to inform and educate the community on the project. The feedback from members of the community indicated that work needs to be done in clarifying the organizational structure, securing additional funding prior to opening and re-evaluating the currently proposed building.

In June of last year, meetings were held with the City of Las Cruces, and they (the city) turned out to be very supportive. So much so, that they offered the use of city owned property for the project. This prompted the Centers organization to move up their timetable, and to consider opening the center in June of 2009. They had originally planned on the first opening to be in June 2010. A timetable closer to the original will allow them time to address community concerns and ensure the long term sustainability of NM GLBTQ Centers.

It became apparent that the time allotted for marketing and public relations programs had to be drastically reduced. Unfortunately, the time left was too short.

New Mexico GLBTQ Centers have now taken a step back to allow the proper amount of time for informing and educating the community and to request their further involvement. Memberships in the Centers project and volunteers are being requested.

Visit their website at www.newmexicoglbtqcenters.org for more information on how you can help. This is an important step in finally developing a real sense of community for all New Mexicans that identify as gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered or questioning.

New Mexico Independent Reporting Polls Support SB12

2009-02-15T13:28:00.002-07:00

SANTA FE — Watch domestic partnership legislation, Gov. Bill Richardson told reporters earlier this week.
Sure enough, the battle over a proposal to establish lawful domestic partnerships in New Mexico appears as if it is heating up again.
A poll commissioned by advocates of the legislation zeroes in on two lawmakers viewed as crucial to the legislation’s fate this year — Democratic Sens. Richard Martinez and Bernadette Sanchez.
Among the findings: roughly three-fifths of registered voters in each of their legislative districts support the legislation.
Read the full story at the New Mexico Independent using the link below.
http://newmexicoindependent.com/18352/poll-signals-domestic-partnerships-fight-isnt-over

Gentlemen’s Club Potluck

2009-02-15T13:28:00.001-07:00

The Gentlemen’s Club met Saturday January 17th at the home of David Stocum and Richard Scramstad. About 30 men attended, including several new faces. Many thanks to David and Richard for being super hosts.

The next potluck will be at the home of Jesse Chavez and Greg Kopp, 503 Carver Road, on Saturday, February 21, at 5 PM. The usual appetizer or dessert format will apply.

For more information contact John at (575) 382-6914

Four Corners Events Planned

2009-02-15T13:27:00.000-07:00

2/21 4cGLAD Annual Meeting and Potluck, Durango, Colorado
Go to www.4cGLAD.org for details

3/14 4cGLAD Spring Fling Dance, Durango, Colorado
Go to www.4cGLAD.org for details

Equality New Mexico Lobby Day

2009-02-15T13:26:00.002-07:00

On Monday February 16th join hundreds of New Mexicans to rally in support of SB12 the Domestic Partners Rights and Responsibilities Act. Every person counts in what could be the final push in protecting ALL New Mexico Families.
Lobby day trainings will include a discussion of domestic partnership talking points, best practice tips for lobbying and an action plan to make the most of our time at the capital. All lobby day participants are encouraged to attend training before making lobby visits. This year we are able to offer two training times
EQNM LOBBY DAY SCHEDULE
7:33 A- Leave ABQ Downtown Depot
8:54 Arrive Santa Fe Depot- Walk to First Christian Church for 9:30 lobby training
9:00-9:30 -1st Training at First Christian Church 645 Weber
9:35-10:00- 2nd Training
10:30-1:00- Lobbying legislators
11:30-1:00- Lunch (We will provide food coupons for upper- crust pizza and representatives from EQNM will be at upper crust to debrief with folks)
1:15-2:00- Press Conference for Bullying Prevention
2:15-3:00- Press Conference and Rally at the Roundhouse
4:00- Fight For Fairness Get Together- Cowgirl

All Colors Youth Summit Coming In March

2009-02-15T13:26:00.001-07:00

The New Mexico GSA Network’s annual youth arts and culture fest, in collaboration with Youth Allies and Warehouse 21, is happening Friday March 20th and Saturday March 21st at Warehouse 21 in downtown Santa Fe! (out of towners can TAKE THE TRAIN!)
Friday night is Youth Open Mic Night! So come ready to beat box, slam, spit, sing, recite, act, or play music!
Saturday we will host youth -led workshops, and Saturday night we finish it all of with a youth dance party!
Please contact Cooper if you want to:
• Sign up to be a feature performer at the open mic
• Lead a workshop (I am attaching last years workshop descriptions so you can get an idea of what's happened in the past!) share your SKILLZ!
• DJ part of the dance with your IPOD!
• Volunteer or donate food!
For more information contact Cooper Lee Bombardier at the Santa Fe Mountain Center, 505-983-6158 ext. 21 or cooper@santafemc.org.

Las Cruces Gentlemen’s Club Meets January 17th

2009-01-13T21:05:00.000-07:00

David Stocum and Richard Scramstad will be hosting the next Las Cruces Gentlemen's Club potluck dinner at their home, 2020 Sandhill Road, on January 17 at 5:00 PM. Each guest should bring an appetizer or dessert item to share. For more information or direction call Richard at 575-382-9153 for information on the Gentlemen's Club contact John Boler Jabart83@aol.com or (575)382-6914

PFLAG Las Cruces to Meet January 21st

2009-01-13T20:26:00.000-07:00

PFLAG of Las Cruces/Dona Ana County will be
meeting the third Wednesday of each month, at 6:30
pm, at the Unitarian church located at 2000 South
Solano

The mission of the organization is to promote the
health and well-being of gay, lesbian and bisexual
persons, their families, and friends through:
Support - to cope with an adverse society;
Education - to enlighten an ill-informed public
Advocacy - to end discrimination and to secure
equal rights.

Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays provides opportunity
for dialogue about sexual orientation and acts to create a society that is
healthy and respectful of human diversity.

Regular monthly meeting January 21st 6:30 PM featuring Terry Hicks discussing

“Transgender issues including parenting, coming out and acceptance.”

PARENTS, FAMILIES and FRIENDS of LESBIANS and GAYS
ALL INTERESTED PERSONS ARE WELCOME

For more information contact:
Merlyn Risser 522-2624

From the New Mexican - Santa Feans react to bishop's D.C. invite

2009-01-13T06:37:00.000-07:00

Gay Episcopal Bishop Gene Robinson said Monday that Barack Obama has asked him to give an inauguration prayer, an apparent attempt to quell anger over the president-elect's plans to have a controversial megachurch pastor as the highlighted clergyman.

Robinson, an outspoken gay-rights advocate whose leadership has divided the church, told the Concord Monitor in his home state of New Hampshire he will deliver his prayer at the Lincoln Memorial on Sunday — two days before Pastor Rick Warren gives the invocation on Inauguration Day.

Read the full story at the link below.

http://www.santafenewmexican.com/SantaFeNorthernNM/Santa-Feans-react-to-Robinson-s-D-C--invite

PFLAG Santa Fe Scholarship Applications Available

2009-01-11T19:24:00.001-07:00

DESCRIPTION
Fifteen or more $1,000 scholarships are offered to LGBT youth by the Santa Fe Chapter of
Parents, Families, and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG).

PURPOSE OF AWARD
To recognize outstanding lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) youth.
To encourage continuing education for self-identified LGBT youth.
To foster a positive image of LGBT people in society.

ELIGIBILITY & TERMS
Priority is given to LGBT youth, however LGBT students up to the age of 35 are eligible to apply.
Priority will be given to first time recipients. Only past recipients who have received only one Santa Fe PFLAG scholarship are eligible (ie you are not eligible if you have received it twice).
One scholarship designated for a Straight Ally may be available.
Must attend a post-secondary educational institution within one year.
Resident of the state of New Mexico.
Must submit an application (in full, following all directions) with required supporting materials by the application deadline.
Awards will be paid by check jointly to the student and the institution.

CRITERIA FOR AWARDING SCHOLARSHIPS
Affirmation of one's LGBT identity.
Demonstration of integrity and honesty.
Participation in community activities.
Determination and potential to achieve goals.
Demonstration of financial need.

REQUIREMENTS & DETAILS
Applications will be considered only if the following is postmarked by Sat March 28, 2009:
Completed Application — original AND three copies
Your most recent transcripts
Two recommendations (forms should be sent by your references)

Mail completed application to:
Scholarship Selection Committee
PFLAG Santa Fe
PO Box 32053
Santa Fe, NM 87594

Decisions will be made by May 10, 2009.
Save the date for the Scholarship Award Reception (attendance expected) Sunday June 7, 2009.

For more information, call Jenn at 660.3288 or Alicia or Eduardo (habla espanol) at 424.8951. You may also e-mail us at scholarship@pflagsantafe.org.

American Southwest Theater Company at NMSU Theater Arts presents touring production DONA ROSITA'S JALAPENO KITCHEN

2009-01-11T19:10:00.000-07:00

American Southwest Theatre Company at New Mexico State University Department of Theater Arts presents a limited engagement of the national tour of "Doña Rosita's Jalapeño Kitchen," starring acclaimed actress Ruby Nelda Perez, January 30 - February 1 at the Hershel Zohn Theater on the NMSU campus.

Written by Rodrigo Duarte-Clark, the Artistic Director and resident playwright of El Teatro de la Esperanza in San Francisco, this one-woman show is deliciously comic and peppered with the poignancy of cultural pride. A development project has targeted Hispanic owned businesses to make way for a tourist shopping mall. Doña Rosita invites the audience to sit and enjoy the “Last Supper” in her barrio of Salsipuedes while she contemplates selling her restaurant/home of 23 years.

"We're honored to bring a play of this caliber to Las Cruces," says American Southwest Theatre Company Managing Director Tom Smith. "Ruby Nelda Perez is a phenomenal actress in a phenomenal show, and we're thankful our audiences will be able to see this charming and wonderful production!"

Ruby Nelda Perez has been touring professionally throughout the USA, Mexico, and Latin America for over thirty years. She performed “Historias para ser Contadas / Stories to be Told” at the John F. Kennedy Performing Arts Center where she was honored with the Award of Excellence medal. The show is designed by the resident company of American Southwest Theatre Company.

"Doña Rosita's Jalapeño Kitchen" is sponsored by the Office of the President of NMSU, the Office of the Dean of Arts and Sciences of NMSU, and the Hispano Chamber of Commerce de Las Cruces.

Show times are 8 p.m. Friday, January 30; 2 p.m. and 8 p.m. Saturday, January 31; and 2 p.m. Sunday, February 1. Ticket prices are $10 - $15 and available by calling the ASTC box office at 646-4515. The 8 p.m. Saturday, January 31performance is a benefit for the Hispano Chamber of Commerce de Las Cruces and includes a post-play reception with the actress. For that performance only, tickets are available at the Chamber offices at 523-2681.

Anti-bullying & Safe Schools Youth Community Meetings Set For January 13th and 15th

2009-01-11T19:05:00.000-07:00

New Mexico Gay Straight Alliance Network, the Santa Fe Mountain Center and EQNM are hosting two community meetings to get hear the youth voice and get YOUR input on the upcoming Anti-Bullying/ safe Schools Legislation that we are working on getting passed this legislative session!

Come attend a meeting, bring your friends and family, and give your thoughts to what this bill should include!

Santa Fe Meeting:
Tuesday, January 13th from 6:30 pm to 7:45 pm
St. Bede's Episcopal church
1601 S. St. Francis Drive
Santa Fe, NM 87505
(corner of San Mateo and St. Francis)

Albuquerque Meeting:
Thursday January 15th from 6:30 pm to 7:45 pm
First Congregational United church of Christ
2801 Lomas NE
Albuquerque
(northwest corner of lomas and Gerard*)

*The parking lot entrance is on Girad.
It is only accessible while going south on Girard.
The door is kept locked, but has a code to temporarily unlock it.
For the attendees, if it is locked when they arrive, they should push the red button on the left side of the door to alert someone in the building to come to open the door.

SAVE THE DATES!
Youth Advocacy Day Training Camp and Youth Lobby Day:
Training Camp:
Sunday February 15th at Santa Fe Mountain Center times TBA
Lodging available on a first come-first served basis!
Youth Lobby Day:
Monday February 16th at the Roundhouse, Santa Fe Times TBA
(Monday is President's Day, no school!)

PFLAG Las Cruces and Foutain Theater Team For Fundraiser

2009-01-11T18:49:00.001-07:00

Revision Studios, The Mesilla Valley Film Society at the Fountain Theater and

Las Cruces PFLAG

Present

Horror In The Wind

Imagine a world…a world where all the gay people become straight….

And all the straight people become gay. Just by BREATHING

This is NOT a horror film, unless you think that Evangelist Pat Robertson being elected president of the United States is frightening!

Banned by Allen Theaters, Horror in the Wind is a fun and unique comedy by High Rolls Film Maker Max Mitchell. Proceeds from this special screening will go toward the Emily Cohen Endowment for Las Cruces PFLAG.

Where: The Fountain Theater in Mesilla

When: January 24th, 2009 at 10pm AFTER the showing of RELIGULOUS

How Much: $10 (includes movie, 2 door prize tickets and dessert) Limited Seating Available!!

Where to get Tickets: The Bean, Spirit Winds and at the Fountain Theater

For more information, contact Carrie at 496-5242 or go to www.fountaintheatre.org

SAGE Executive To Speak On GLBT Seniors Issues At RainbowVision Santa Fe

2009-01-11T18:24:00.001-07:00

Michael Adams, Executive Director of SAGE (Service and Advocacy for GLBT Elders), will lead an informal discussion at RainbowVision Santa Fe, 500 Rodeo Road on Wednesday January 28th at 8:45 am. Michael Adams will talk about recent developments in the work of SAGE and partner organizations on behalf of LGBT older people, including increasingly successful efforts to engage AARP on LGBT issues, the growing network of SAGE programs for LGBT older people around the country, and opportunities presented by the new Obama Administration for inclusion of LGBT concerns in federal aging policies and programs. A $5.00 fee (partial proceeds to EQNM) includes continental breakfast. Reservations: 428-7781.

Gender Role Free Dance Event

2009-01-11T18:23:00.001-07:00

Gender-Role-Free Contra is a popular form of dancing with GLBT groups in Atlanta, Boston and San Francisco and now we want to bring it to Albuquerque. Come see for yourself how much fun it is by joining us for a social on Saturday, January 24, 2009 from 7:00pm to 10:00pm at the Emotions in Motion dance studio.

Contra is a form of American folk dance in which dancers form sets of parallel lines running the length of the hall. A caller, working with live musicians, guides dancers through a sequence of moves that ends with couples having progressed up or down the set. As the sequence is repeated, each couple will eventually dance with every other couple in the set. There is neither “gyrating hip action” nor any fancy footwork in contra.

Traditional contra dances are called with distinct gender roles and opposite-sex couples are normal. In gender-role-free contra, however, dancers come together in a friendly, non-gender-oriented environment. Dancers may choose to dance the male role or the female role, regardless of the dancer’s gender. The caller tries to use non-gender-specific terms rather than “ladies” and “gents.”

Tickets for this event are $10 per person and include beverages and food. Please browse our web site at http://www.contrasocial.com for more information. Of course, do not hesitate to contact us by email at info@contrasocial.com if you have any questions or comments.

from the New Mexican - Senator: State might pass domestic-partner measure

2008-12-26T04:59:00.000-07:00

Steve Terrell | The New Mexican

12/25/2008 - 12/23/08

The chairman of the state Senate Judiciary Committee, who intends to introduce a measure to establish domestic partnerships — allowing any couple, including same-sex couples to enjoy all rights and responsibilities that state law gives to married couples — says he believes there are enough votes in the Legislature to pass a bill.

Sen. Cisco McSorley, D-Albuquerque, is optimistic because of election gains by progressive Democrats this year in the Legislature.

"It has a great chance of passing," McSorley said in a recent interview, "There's a lot of new legislators who are for it who have replaced legislators who were against it."

Read the entire story at the Santa Fe New Mexican website:

http://www.santafenewmexican.com/SantaFeNorthernNM/state-legislature-Senator--Domestic-partner-measure-may-pass

DOMA Repeal Protest In The Works

2008-12-21T14:47:00.000-07:00

Hello!
My name is Marianna Anaya and I am one of the organizers for Albuquerque's January 10th protest to repeal DOMA. I am looking for other activists and organizations to help me spread the word and I am also looking for speakers for the rally. I was wondering if your organization might be interested in helping out? I can be contacted at this email address or by phone at 505-907-5037. I hope to hear from you soon!
Thanks so much,
Marianna

Rachel Maddow of MSNBC on Warrengate

2008-12-20T09:21:00.000-07:00

Visit msnbc.com for Breaking News, World News, and News about the Economy

Las Cruces Gentlemen’s Club Meets December 20th

2008-12-08T04:51:00.000-07:00

Where: The home of Richard Panzer and Bob Thompson, 2873 San Miguel Court, Las Cruces

When: December 20, 5:00 PM 'til ?

What: A cookie and white elephant exchange. Please bring at least one dozen specialty cookies or bars. The hosts will provide a light supper to go with all the sweets. Also, please bring a fun wrapped item of little or no real value or expense to be exchanged for another wonderful "treasure" from someone else. I think we all know what a white elephant is.

What else: Please RSVP to Rich or Bob at 523-8028 or by e-mail czarolddog@aol.com
to let them know how many they can expect. Feel free to bring along friends if you like but let R&B know how many.

The January potluck has not been scheduled, but David Stocum and Richard Scramstad have volunteered to host in their home.

NM GLBTQ Centers To Open First Center June 2009

2008-12-07T14:39:00.000-07:00

(photo by Sheila Mink)

New Mexico GLBTQ Centers, Inc. announced November 16, 2008 that the opening of the first of six regional community centers will take place in June 2009. The Southern Regional Center in Las Cruces will open in conjunction with Southern New Mexico Pride, June 20, 2009.

A group of over 30 community members attended the announcement at Peace Lutheran Church in Las Cruces. A presentation by David Stocum, interim Executive Director of NM Centers, detailed the location in the Alameda-Depot Historic District near downtown Las Cruces. In addition to a virtual tour Stocum described the proposed start-up programs including a teen drop in center, peer facilitated support groups, library and community meeting space. Future programs will be developed based on the ongoing New Mexico GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment which will be completed in the spring of 2009.

“The Southern Regional Center will serve as the pilot center to test our business model and programs prior to rolling out additional centers over the next several years,” according to Stocum. A generous member of the Las Cruces community is making the center possible by “giving us a significant discount on rent, making some improvements and allowing us to configure the building as we need,” continued Stocum.

New Mexico GLBTQ Centers also announced a Membership Drive to help fund the opening of the Southern Regional Center and operation of the statewide organization. Information on the membership plans is available by contacting the Centers at info@newmexicoglbtq.org.

A Local Managing Board for the regional center is forming in addition to the statewide Board of Directors for New Mexico GLBTQ Centers. Board President Richard Scramstad is spearheading this effort and may be contacted at president@newmexicoglbtqcenters.org.

Fighting Mad? Fight Back!

2008-12-07T14:32:00.002-07:00

By David Salcido

In the 1976 Robert Altman film Network, one of the most famous and chillingly prophetic speeches in movie history was given by Peter Finch’s talking head Howard Beale, when he said: “Things have got to change. But first, you’ve gotta get mad! You’ve got to say, ‘I’m mad as hell and I’m not gonna take this anymore!’” After the passing of Prop 8 in California, members of the LGBT community are finally waking up to the realization that unless we ALL do something about the current situation, nothing is ever going to change.

Luckily for us, there are organizations that are leading the charge, by tallying up the offenders, one by one. Millions of dollars were donated toward passing the offensive Proposition 8 in California. With so many economic problems plaguing this country, education cutbacks, people losing their homes and worse, thousands thought it beneficial to spend their money on denying basic civil rights to fellow Americans. Now those who did so are being held accountable.

Several websites have been erected since early November tallying the votes, crunching the numbers and naming the names, including AntiGayBlacklist.com. The San Francisco Chronicle has a section of their site dedicated to both sides of the debate, tallying up not only those who donated for Prop 8, but against it, as well. The lists were compiled for the Associated Press by Richard Dalton, “a computer-assisted reporting specialist” based on “campaign finance reports submitted to the Calif. Secretary of State’s Office since 2007.”

Of course, the usual suspects figure prominently on both lists. They came out in all their hate-mongering glory, flinging money at the Proposition like a many-headed Hydra. To date, the numbers are staggering. Anti-Christ James Dobson’s Focus On The Family donated many times, for a grand total of $539,643.66. Donald Wildmon’s The American Family Association donated $500,000 in one lump sum. Timothy LaHaye’s venomous wife Christine’s group Concerned Women For America dished out $409,000. The Knights of Columbus ponied up $1,425,000. And the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops blessed the campaign with $200,000 of their parishioner’s tithes. So much for the numbers.

By far the best and most informative site out there now is that offered by Californians Against Hate, whose Dishonor Role includes not only the names of individuals and companies who donated to Proposition 8, but the total amounts donated, broken down by date, along with information about the people who donated and website links, where available. Which makes it very easy to be proactive in researching and boycotting where appropriate. All information there is based on data made available by the California Secretary of State’s office.

It’s there that you’ll find many local business owners at which to direct your anger. Yes, I said it. If you’re angry about the results and really want to do something about it, target the people right here in your own backyard. Californians have their hands full with the thousands who live there. Let them take care of their own. We have our own fish to fry, right here in New Mexico. Take note.

Perhaps the biggest offender is Albuquerque resident and owner of the Blake’s Lotaburger food chain, Brian Rule. Yes, far from being a simple executive with the company, as originally reported, Rule is the sole owner of all 77 stores throughout New Mexico. Rule thought it a good idea to donate a whopping $10,000 to support Proposition 8. Members of the LGBT community disagree, making it their golden rule to avoid the burger bigot’s barnyard bistros wherever they may be found.

Coming up close on the list is William Moore, the Chief Executive Officer of Rinchem Company, Inc, headquartered in Albuquerque. Moore donated $9,999 of his company’s money to Proposition 8. It shouldn’t come as any surprise that Moore’s company specializes in transporting and warehousing toxic materials for “regional and Fortune 500 customers in North America, Europe, the Middle East and Asia.” Wise business-minded members of the LGBT community would do well to steer clear of Rinchem.

Another home-grown business owner, Steve Foutz, Chief Executive Officer of Foutz & Bursum Construction in Bloomfield, helped in the mission to deconstruct the civil rights of others. He thought it good business to donate $9,500 to Proposition 8. Ironic considering that Foutz attributes his success in the construction industry to his “professional, versatile and flexible” traits. Maybe he should have added “intolerant and thick as a brick” to the list, because Foutz’ “higher level of service” falls short in the community department.

One more business that didn’t really think things through is the Webb Automotive Group, Inc, located in Farmington, which donated $9,950 to the cause of driving a wedge between happy couples in California. Do you think it ever occurred to the owners of this “full service Cadillac and Chevrolet dealer” that luxury items, such as the cars they sell, are more likely to be sold to happy couples with no children and LOTS of disposable income to play with? Apparently not.

Other big-money and business-owning offenders include Darwin Harrison, Chief Financial Officer of Albuquerque Health Partners, LLC who donated $6,000; Joe Tanner, Native American Art Dealer with Fifth Generation Trading Co. in Farmington, who donated $5,000; Roger Cox, owner of Roger Cox & Associates, Inc and William Sego, Chief Executive Officer of Dura Bilt Products, Inc, both from Albuquerque and each of whom also donated $5,000; Marshall Jones, owner of Great American Stations in Gallup, who donated $2,000 and Jack Cook, general manager and owner of Navajo Trading Co. in Farmington, who donated $1,000.

All are worthy of our anger and boycott. Oh, but there are more. To find them, simply go to the San Francisco Chronicle site and do a search by state. There you’ll find the 50+ different contributors, including doctors, dentists, lawyers, accountants, insurance agents, bankers, financial advisors, building contractors, real estate developers, teachers and more.

Just remember, nothing has ever been solved through violence. If, however, you do find that you have been supporting the business of one or more of these people on the list, stop doing it and don’t forget to let them know WHY you will no longer be requiring their services. It’s really that easy. Because we’re all mad as hell, but the only way they’re ever going to know it, is if we tell them, in Howard Beale’s own words, “I’m a HUMAN BEING, Goddamnit! My life has value!”

Simply put, we DON’T have to take it, anymore.

Mike and Victor’s Annual New Year’s Open House

2008-12-07T14:32:00.001-07:00

All are invited to our annual New Year Day open house potluck on Thursday January 1, 2009 from 530 p.m. on. Our house is located at 941 S. Melendres, Las Cruces, just off South Main Street.

Feel free to contact us for more information at 575 523-7301 or on line at vicmic@zianet.com

Please bring your friends. Everybody is welcome.

Energy, Feeling and Color in Motion: an art show

2008-12-07T14:22:00.000-07:00

An exhibit of unique, original, hand-pulled monotypes: landscapes, abstracts and figures by Judith Masur will be held December 13 – 14 at RainbowVision Santa Fe. The Show, in the Press Room, is Saturday the 13th from 11AM to 4PM and 7PM to 9PM. The show continues on Sunday from 11AM to 4PM. There will be an Artist’s Reception on Saturday from 2PM to 4PM. RainbowVision Santa Fe is located at 500 Rodeo Road in Santa Fe. This event is one weekend only. Come and be dazzled by Energy, Feeling and Color in Motion.

Gay Men’s Chorus Comes Out For Christmas

2008-12-07T14:21:00.000-07:00

Come Out for Christmas: a concert by the New Mexico Gay Men's Chorus
Three performances:

In Albuquerque: December 12 (Friday) at 7:30 p.m.
at Immanuel Presbyterian Church, 114 Carlisle Blvd, S.E.

Also in Albuquerque: Dec. 14 (Sunday) at 3 p.m.
at First Unitarian, 3701 Carlisle Blvd., N.E.

(Advance tickets in Albuquerque at Larry's Hats, 3102 Central, S.E.)

In Santa Fe: December 13 (Saturday) at 7:30 p.m.
at the Unitarian Church of Santa Fe, 107 West Barcelona Rd.
(Advance tickets in Santa Fe at Nicholas Potter Books, 211 E. Palace Ave.)

Advance tickets are $10; $12 for tickets at the door.
Tickets are also available on the website: NMGMC.org

The New Mexico Gay Men's Chorus is a group of 36 men conducted by Matthew Moore; accompanied by Stephen Montoya. Founded in 1981, the group has sung throughout New Mexico and in five other states and in Canada. Also on this Christmas concert with the chorus is the Stu MacAskie Trio.

On this program are popular Christmas favorites in new arrangements by Stu MacAskie and Timothy Takach (a singer with Cantus), as well as lush, new settings of "O Magnum Mysterium" and "Lux Aurumque." Humor by the group is highlighted in "Coming Out on Christmas" and "Dance of the Sugar-Plum Fairy."

GirlsShorts.tv Launches Online Film Fest

2008-12-07T14:12:00.001-07:00

Albuquerque, New Mexico, November 29, 2008 - Imagine what it would be like to find quality lesbian short films in one central location on the web. GirlsShorts.tv has now made this possibility a reality.

GirlsShorts.tv is a new online community created to promote lesbian, bisexual and transgender short films, music videos, film and book trailers and more. It will provide affordable pay per view, pay per download and free ad-supported content to an international audience, and internet exposure to professional, semi-professional, and amateur lesbian, bisexual and transgender filmmakers.

“The internet has made web video a reality, but finding real lesbian content can be quite difficult (and sometimes icky!). This site should have great potential for both creators and those of us hungry for content.”
- Angie Beauchamp

GirlsShorts.tv is owned by Verge Communications, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico and operated by two women with a passion for film: Angie Beauchamp and Nina Knapp. The owners have a history of experience in promotions, marketing, and active involvement in filmmaking including making their own films.

“For the past two years, we have volunteered on the screening committee for the Southwest Gay & Lesbian Film Festival here in Albuquerque. What struck both Angie and I was how many good films were submitted, and how few would find their way into the festival program.”
- Nina Knapp

“Many filmmakers find distribution to be a difficult and daunting task, but their short films are just as deserving of an audience as those films accepted for national and international film festivals.”
- Angie Beauchamp

Knapp and Beauchamp decided to form a partnership, Verge Communications, and to launch a new online community dedicated to bringing lesbian, bisexual and transgender short films to a global audience, while supporting the filmmakers through a revenue sharing program at the same time. Thus, GirlsShorts.tv was born.

“The internet has made web video a reality, but finding real lesbian content can be quite difficult (and sometimes icky!). This site should have great potential for both creators and those of us hungry for content.”
- Angie Beauchamp

The goals of GirlsShorts.tv are:
• Provide global exposure to filmmakers;
• Provide a revenue stream to filmmakers through our revenue sharing program;
• Provide a venue for filmmakers to promote all their works;
• Find a new life for older films;
• Provide exposure to comedians, musicians and authors through performance clips and book trailers;
• Allow filmmakers to retain all rights to their work.

“GirlsShorts.tv is the most exciting thin I’ve heard about in a long time. Part of that is the profit sharing that can occur by having your work on the site, and the other part of that is just by having another platform to launch your work…Particularly with our niche market, the lesbian and queer population worldwide,…having a way to make more films by earning revenue on the short films you’ve already made is an incredibly delicious idea.”
- Rosser Goodman, Director, Producer, HOLDING TREVOR – KGB Films

GirlsShorts.tv accepts video content up to 35 minutes in length in avi, mpg, wmv, dat, mov, or flv formats. We prefer content be submitted on DVD, but VHS, VCD, or CD are also acceptable. Content in PAL must be submitted on a DVD.

“We look forward to creating a diverse community celebrating lesbian, bisexual and transgender film!”
- Angie Beauchamp

PFLAG Picnics in Farmington and Carlsbad by Sheila Mink

2008-11-30T12:45:00.000-07:00

PFLAG Picnics in Farmington and Carlsbad by Sheila Mink

The month of October 2008 was the time for two PFLAG picnics, one in the NW and one in the SE part of New Mexico. And, they were on consecutive weekends. Knowing this information was the motivation for two road trips.

Shortly before noon on Saturday October 11th Katherine Palmer & I were ready to leave for Farmington, New Mexico. The wind was blowing briskly, to say the least, as we headed for Albuquerque, stopping there long enough to fill our gas tank. We continued on from the gas station and arrived in Farmington later that afternoon.

Next, we decided to look for the park where the picnic would be held the next day. After a bit of driving around we located both the park and the pavilion. The wind was still blowing very briskly.

Early on Sunday afternoon we ventured back to the pavilion in Lions Park, in time for the start of the picnic sponsored by the Farmington PFLAG Chapter. The temperature, having cooled considerably from the previous day, was about 55 degrees, but fortunately the wind had slowed down to about 25 miles per hour. And, thankfully, the sun was shining brightly, which helped to warm things up a bit. While we ate and talked we were also able to watch the people nearby in the park who were playing Frisbee Golf.

Monday morning in Farmington was very cold, setting a low temperature record of 22 degrees for October 13th. However, as we left for home, we were still basking in the warmth of the good time that we had at the picnic on Sunday.

The next weekend brought us another opportunity to attend a PFLAG picnic, this time on October 18th in Carlsbad, New Mexico.

A little bit past noon on Friday the 17th we were on our way. The weather was much nicer, without the windy conditions of the previous weekend.

Upon our arrival in Carlsbad, we once again went park hunting. This time we weren't able to find the park or the pavilion. Fortunately, we had the next morning to try again.

On Saturday morning we got together for breakfast with one of the members of the Carlsbad PFLAG Chapter. After we were done eating, she showed us how to get to the park and the pavilion. (As it turned out, we had come pretty close to finding it on Friday.)

In the early afternoon we were back at the pavilion, in time to walk around a bit before the picnic started. Since it was in Riverview Park near the Pecos River the scene was very different from that in Lions Park. Where we had seen pretty sandstone rocks at the picnic in Farmington, in Carlsbad we now saw pretty green grass, trees, and water.

And, the weather was quite different too, this time the temperature was 75 degrees, the sun was shining, and the wind was only about 15 miles per hour. For a day in late October it felt pretty good.

Once again we had a good time visiting with the people who came to the picnic. Many of them we had not met previously. The hours passed quickly, and then it was time for us to leave. As we drove home, we had good thoughts and good memories to take with us.

Currently there are chapters in Farmington, Santa Fe, Albuquerque, Silver City, Las Cruces, Alamogordo, and Carlsbad.

Would you like to have a PFLAG chapter in the New Mexico town where you live? Katherine Palmer, the New Mexico PFLAG State Coordinator, would be glad to help you start one.

cell: 505-873-7373
email: contact@pflagabq.org

An Update On The Campaign For Domestic Partnership

2008-11-02T09:41:00.001-07:00

An Update On The Campaign For Domestic Partnership
From The Campaign

The Domestic Partnership Campaign hit the ground running in late August and has been mobilizing our community and allies in cities and towns across the state. Campaign managers Jennifer Rose and Sandra Wechsler, Field Organizer Trey La Fleur, and Jesse Lopez Volunteer extraordinaire, have been leading the efforts to elect our pro-equality candidates and legislators.

The Campaign has been dedicated to working in six targeted legislative races in the northern and southern part of the state. In collaboration with our pro-equality legislators we have been organizing volunteers, hosting phone banks and walking door to door with our allies. We have connected with thousands of New Mexicans who support equality in New Mexico.

In addition to working in these important legislative races, the Campaign has been implementing our legislative and advocacy strategy. We are working in partnership with the Coalition for Domestic Partnership. The Coalition consists of organizations and advocates from multiple sectors that have come together to organize individuals, communities, businesses, and our faith leaders, to work towards passing domestic partnership in the upcoming legislative session.

In the upcoming months we will support our coalition partners host advocacy trainings, conduct town hall meetings, and educate individuals and leaders about the importance of ensuring equality for all New Mexicans.

We believe this is the year we will pass domestic partnership, but we need YOU!

Here are a few things each and every one of us can start doing now:

1) Tell your story! Talk to family, friends, and co-workers about the importance of ensuring all New Mexicans have basic legal protections.

2) Email us at dpcampaign@threesixtynm.com and sign up to volunteer to help pass domestic partnership.

3) Go to www.equalitypac.com and www.eqnm.org and make a donation.
For more information on how to get involved in the Domestic Partnership Campaign contact Jennifer Rose at 505-490-9058.

ABQs Common Bond Launches New Website

2008-11-02T09:37:00.000-07:00

From Common Bond

Common Bond is putting together a new web site to try to fill the communication gap that is gapping in the Albuquerque LGBTIQ communities. The new site is CommonBondNM.org It started rolling out last night and should be full active today, Nov. 1. We are starting out with the resource list from Common Bond's old site, some news feeds and a link to LGBT Press for regional news, and calendar for anyone to post calendar items.

As it gets going we will be adding a "What's Happening" with "Eyes About Town" and other columns about things happening around town teasers of events coming up, issues arising and with photos & comments of past events. There will
- be a place to post opinions, ask for assistance & for opinions, and place to blog & comment and say what is on your mind,
- we will create some ways for people to do some networking, and
- groups will be able to set up their own sub-sites that can have their own calendar and it will be possible to limit to members.

What we hope is that it will become a reliable and authoritative source of information on all things happening in about & concerning the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered, Intersex, Two-Spirit, and Queer communities and their allies. We will be having meetings and training so people can learn how to use it better. We hope you will add your voice to this community web site.

This is a beginning. We want it to be a community web site, one that each of the community members feels like represents them in a way. It is open for you to put on it what you want. We are looking for folks to contribute to the web site, to author articles and columns and to manage the content be posted to the site. We will be having meetings and training so people can learn how to use it better. We hope you will add your voice to this community web site.

Check out the site: http://commonbondnm.org and leave a comment via the "Feedback" item at the bottom in the upper left menu of Primary Links.

If you are unfamiliar with Common Bond, it's full name is Common Bond New Mexico Foundation. It is the oldest gay & lesbian organization in New Mexico having been formed in 1981. It ran Albuquerque's lesbian & gay community center from 1983 to 1998. It still runs U21, an every Friday night social & informative gathering for youth under 21. In the last couple of years it has added Center Without Walls, to put on programs that would happen at a community center and Drops of Rain, an electronic monthly LGBTITQ collection plate to assist the people to make regular payments to those creating their community. Many of the current establish organizations spun off from groups that started at Common Bond. We are looking to again be that center for people work their magic, focus efforts and connect people to strengthen and enliven our community and communities here in Albuquerque and New Mexico.

Equality New Mexico Continues To Lead For Equal Rights

2008-11-02T09:36:00.001-07:00

Equality New Mexico Continues To Lead For Equal Rights
From EQNM

Since 1993, Equality New Mexico has lead the way for L/G/B/T rights in New Mexico. Yet, this is a time of transition and exciting challenges for EQNM and New Mexico's L/G/B/T community.

The national organizations that have heavily supported EQNM over the years have made defeating California's Proposition 8 their number one priority. That means that EQNM will have to operate with one third of the budget the Board expected. It means that the Board of Directors has taken extraordinary measures to slash costs and significantly step-up its New Mexico fund-raising efforts.

"We remain committed to our goals," noted newly-elected Board President Chris Herbert of Roswell.

The Board of Directors has not allowed current circumstances to curtail their short-term or long-term goals for the organization.

"As always," affirmed Rachel Rosen, Santa Fe, "EQNM will continue to pursue our three-pronged agenda: Legislation, Advocacy, and Education."

EQNM supports the Campaign for Domestic Partnership, a joint project with Equality PAC. To that end, the Campaign for Domestic Partnership has hired Trey LeFleur, an organizer based in Las Cruces, and Sandra Wechsler, our campaign manager based in Santa Fe, for the Domestic Partner Campaign.

"The Campaign is aggressively working to educate voters in districts where we need to pick-up votes," reminded LeFleur. "We're particularly active in Dona Ana County."

The Campaign is active in six legislative races in the northern and southern parts of the State. EQNM will push anti-bullying legislation in the 2009 Legislative Session, in addition to our Domestic Partnership Bill.

Serving as lead advocates, EQNM volunteers and staff continue to field calls from across the State. EQNM advocates for L/G/B/T people across New Mexico.

"We get so many heart-warming, encouraging calls every day," noted Jesse Lopez, Albuquerque volunteer. "But, we still get far too many heart-breaking ones as well."

EQNM continues to pursue programmatic work to educate the community about our hard-won civil rights, the extent of the Hate Crimes Act, and fairness in relationship recognition.

What does that mean to YOU? It means EQNM needs your help like never before. It means that EQNM needs you to donate money. It means that EQNM needs you to volunteer for the Campaign for Domestic Partnership.

"It means EQNM needs you to take action now," confirmed Virginia Stephenson, Board member, "to ensure equality for our community."

Links:

www.EQNM.org
www.EqualityPAC.com

PFLAG Las Cruces to Hold “Transparent” Fundraiser

2008-11-02T09:35:00.000-07:00

PFLAG Las Cruces will screen the film Transparent at it 13th annual Celebrate Diversity Fundraiser November 8, 2008 at the Hershel Zohn Theatre at New Mexico State University.

Transparent is a documentary that focuses on 19 female to male transgender people and their coming to terms with transitioning. The 2005 film has been acclaimed as one of the best examples of new Trans cinema.

For more information or to purchase tickets contact Merlyn at 575-522-2624 or pflaglascruces@yahoo.com.

NM GLBTQ Centers Celebrate Community

2008-11-02T09:33:00.000-07:00

New Mexico GLBTQ Centers (NM Centers) will celebrate the GLBTQ community and make a major announcement at an event on Sunday November 16 at Peace Lutheran Church. The event will be from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM.

NM Centers’ Board of Directors, community leaders, dignitaries and special guests will celebrate community as New Mexico GLBTQ Centers will announce what’s next in creating a statewide system of GLBTQ Community Centers.

Peace Lutheran Church is located at 1701 Missouri Ave. in Las Cruces. Refreshments will be served. The community is invited to join the celebration. According to NM Centers Board President Richard Scramstad, “We’re excited about what has been happening and the announcement we will be making. We want to share our excitement with the entire community.”

NM Centers request you RSVP but are not requiring them, you may RSVP to info@newmexicoglbtqcenters.org

VAGINA MONOLOGUES AUDITIONS

2008-11-02T09:30:00.000-07:00

Auditions for the Vagina Monologues and a new play, A Memory, A Monologue, A Rant and A Prayer, will be held the first week of November:

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 6 from 4:00-6:00pm
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 7 from 6:00-8:00pm
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 8 from 10:00am-2:00pm

Location: The Women Studies office at NMSU, Science Hall room #286

WOMEN and MEN of all ages, shapes, styles and walks of life welcome and encouraged to audition!
NO ACTING EXPERIENCE NECESSARY - just a passion and commitment to ending violence against women.
Looking for people to act, work behind stage, organize, volunteer, and help in any way!

For more information, please email vday.nmsu@gmail.com.

Santa Fe Mountain Center Receives International Honor

2008-11-02T09:25:00.000-07:00

Santa Fe, N.M.—The Santa Fe Mountain Center (SFMC) has been selected as the Association for Experiential Education’s (AEE) organizational member of the year. AEE is a nonprofit, professional membership association dedicated to the promotion and support of experiential education and has over 1500 members in 35 countries.

Dr. Nina Roberts, assistant professor of Recreation, Tourism and Parks at San Francisco State University, wrote in here nomination letter:
“They have touched the lives of thousands of people, young and old, giving many of their clients something to hope for during times of uncertainty and despair. Even the healthiest participants – across the program spectrum – credit SFMC for providing them with new ways of thinking and being in the world. The SFMC exemplified social justice and constantly strives for social change by Mountain Center will soon be celebrating 30-years as one of this nation’s premiere experiential education programs.”

The Santa Fe Mountain Center is the only nationally accredited therapeutic adventure program in New Mexico, and has been providing programming for the most underserved populations in the state since 1979. The methodologies applied represent an alternative to traditional educational and therapeutic approaches which tend to be conducted in comfortable institutional settings. SFMC creates learning experiences that include elements of adventure, community/civic engagement, education and challenge. Seventy five percent of the programming is focused on vulnerable youth through the Therapeutic Adventure Program (TAP). This program serves adjudicated youth, survivors of sexual, physical or emotional abuse, substance abusers, youth at risk of entering the system, youth in treatment, and displaced youth from a diversity of backgrounds and cultures. Socially and culturally sensitive applications have been developed for specific youth populations including Native American and LGBTQA (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning and Straight Allied) youth who have amongst the highest rates of suicide and drug abuse nationally. The balance of the curriculum focuses on adult and family services for trauma survivors, those at risk or affected by HIV/AIDS, and harm reduction services for intravenous drug users.

Developed through years of research and evaluation, SFMC programs are rooted in the Experiential Adventure-Based Resiliency Model© which focuses on building social competencies, positive values, and positive identity development. Adventure-based activities such as hiking, rock climbing, rafting, ropes courses, group problem solving challenges, and community mobilization activities, engage clients in a manner that integrates mind, body and spirit and have proven to be powerful vehicles for developing a sense of self worth, responsibility, and connection to community and the natural world. SFMC also endorses and is part of the No Child Left Inside Movement as they have been connecting children and adults to the wonders of the natural world since their inception.

From the early 1980’s SMFC became known for innovative applications of experiential education and adventure therapy consistently receiving recognition for their ground breaking work. “You’re in a territory that no other organization in the field is in right now, reaching out with applications of adventure programming that were unheard of.” stated Dr. Mike Gass, Dean of the Kinesiology at the UNH, during a recent AEE re-accreditation of the center. “The legacy that you are leaving continues to leave a huge broad wake in the field that is affecting other organizations. In many ways you lead the field and people recognize that. They’re watching you and want to know what you’re doing because what you do positively affects other people.” he added.

Addressing pressing social issues facing specific New Mexico populations that others have shied away from has been a distinguishing attribute of the organization. Examples of such programming include: Emergence, a Native youth leadership initiative which integrates experiential education, environmental awareness and community mobilization to provide Native youth with culturally sensitive tools for addressing community challenges; Climbing Up, Climbing Out /GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) Network which focuses on positive identity, resiliency skills, empowerment, and community support for LGBTQA youth; The Anti-Bullying Initiative, a program designed in response to requests from local teachers to promote healthy peer relationships and create more caring and safe school communities that enhance learning opportunities for all students; Adventure Out, a pioneering HIV prevention program which utilizes experiential education and wilderness adventure for personal empowerment with a focus on healthy decision making; Positive Adventures, a program created to encourage people living with HIV/AIDS to maintain a positive outlook, continue living fulfilling lives and engage in community; and Harm Reduction Services where intravenous drug users in Rio Arriba County (which has the highest heroin overdose rate per capita in the U.S.) receive food, health education, treatment information and needle exchange to reduce the spread of Hepatitis C and HIV.

“You have a strong and vocal stance on social justice. You live social justice issues everyday and this permeates the very fiber of these walls, the people who work here, and the people who come here.” shared Dr. Mike Gass. “You can’t hide these programs like Climbing up Climbing Out, and Adventure Out and say that’s for our folks here that we work with.” he stated emphatically. “You need to share it with others because what you have achieved in these types of programs is so very, very important. So many efforts to clients that need services like these are in communities that are just afraid, and they don’t know how to go about achieving greatness like you have. So if you can take what you have produced and put fear to the side so that people who are genuinely underserved can really feel empowered – that is really something of a treasure you can present to other people.” he added.

SFMC’s innovative programming is producing significant, measurable results with requests for replication in other states. Invitations to present at national conferences have been frequent over the years and increasing as of late. Last month, Martin Walker and Kahlo Benavidez, of the Adventure Out HIV prevention program shared strategy and powerful outcomes of the unique approach at the largest U.S. HIV/AIDS conference. Next month the Harm Reduction program coordinator, Sheilah Galer, will be presenting at the National Harm Reduction conference in Miami, and also in November, several staff will be presenting at the National AEE conference in Vancouver, B.C. where SFMC will be acknowledged with this prestigious recognition. “Receiving the AEE Organization of Year award means so much to us, as we have worked so hard to be a responsive community resource as well as a program that sets high standards for the field of Experiential Education. We feel humbled and proud.” shares Executive Director, Sky Gray.

The Santa Fe Mountain Center is a 501(c)3 organization located in Tesuque, New Mexico, and provides services to clients statewide. They are dedicated to promoting personal discovery and social change among youth, families and groups through the use of creative learning experiences in wilderness, community, and cultural environments. The center regularly holds access lunches where community members can come and observe first hand the powerful interactions that participants experience. Please contact them at 505-983-6158 for future dates.

Southern New Mexico Pride Halloween Ball To Be Held Oct. 31

2008-10-25T09:48:00.000-06:00

LAS CRUCES - Please join Southern New Mexico Pride for An 80’s Halloween Ball from 8:00-11:00 p.m. on Halloween night, Friday, October 31, 2008 at the Las Cruces Country Club.

The Ball will feature a costume contest, door prizes, a cash bar and all the 80’s music you can shake a broomstick at! Admission is $15 per person.

All ghosts, goblins, vampires, and witches 18 years and older are welcome.
Dress as wild and crazy as your imagination will allow.

All proceeds will go to fund Southern New Mexico Pride – celebrating diversity in Las Cruces. Pride puts on the Pride parade and celebration each June in Las Cruces.

Tickets available at the door and in advance at Spirit Winds in Las Cruces or by calling Jeff or Doug at 575-556-0264.

New Gentlemen's Club to Meet Oct. 25th

2008-10-11T19:16:00.001-06:00

The second gathering of the newly formed Gentlemen's Club of Las Cruces was held at the home of Paul Sestina on East Mesa. Seventeen men attended the potluck dinner and had a great time.

The group decided at this event to become more inclusive in its membership circle in the Las Cruces area, including neighboring communities, by welcoming gay men of all ages, single or coupled, and to attempt social outings in addition to its monthly potluck dinners. The group's mailing list now numbers 31 men.

The next event will be a potluck dinner (please bring an appetizer or dessert) on Saturday, October 25 at 6:00 PM. Those who wish to attend, or for further information, are asked to call John at 382-6914 or e-mail jabart83@aol.com by October 22. Location and directions will be given upon request.

GLBT History Month 2008

2008-10-04T11:27:00.001-06:00

NM GLBTQ Centers Begins Community Needs Assessment

2008-10-04T11:24:00.000-06:00

The New Mexico State Fair marked the beginning of the first statewide gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning (GLBTQ) community needs assessment. New Mexico GLBTQ Centers, Inc., a Las Cruces based non-profit creating GLBTQ Community Centers statewide has received a $9800 grant from The Gamma Mu Foundation of Ft. Lauderdale, FL to partially fund the comprehensive statewide GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment. The New Mexico GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment will look at the needs of New Mexico’s diverse GLBTQ community in areas of healthcare, mental healthcare, senior programs, youth programs and other issues. The survey, which will be used to develop Center programs, will include both urban and rural areas of New Mexico.

“According to the Movement Advancement Project, the GLBTQ population of New Mexico is 68,411 people,” States David Stocum, Interim Executive Director of NM GLBTQ Centers. “We know many of these residents feel isolated and afraid,” Stocum continues. “This assessment is a step in ending that isolation and fear, a step in fully including ourselves in the community of New Mexico.”

The Arrowhead Center at New Mexico State University completed a market analysis during the summer as part of the New Mexico GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment. The market analysis found that “The development of the GLBTQ Centers will be a positive improvement on the well-being of the GLBTQ population. Building on improving the lives of this population is necessary for economic and social development. With assistance, many individuals in the rural areas will achieve a higher standard of living, and over time the NM Centers have the potential to effect positive change throughout the entire state of New Mexico.”

NM GLBTQ Centers was at the New Mexico State Fair with other GLBTQ community groups and was recruiting survey participants and volunteers to assist with the community needs assessment. Anyone interested in assisting may also contact the Centers at info@newmexicoglbtqcenters.org.

PFLAG Las Cruces to Hold “Transparent” Fundraiser

2008-10-04T11:23:00.000-06:00

Remembering Matthew 10 Years Later

2008-10-04T11:19:00.001-06:00

Photo by Gina van Hoof

Ten years ago on October 6th Matthew Shepard was brutally beaten and left to die. After days in a coma, he passed away on October 12, 1998.

According to the Matthew Shepard Foundation website, “Matthew was an optimistic and accepting young man. He always put his family and friends first and had a special gift of relating to almost everyone. He was the type of person that was very approachable and always looked to new challenges. Matthew had a great passion for equality and always stood up for the acceptance of people's differences.”

Matthew’s mother Judy founded the foundation to work to end hate. The current “Campaign to Erase Hate” focuses on ten ways to erase hate everyday. You can learn more about Matthew’s life and legacy at www.matthewspepard.org or www.matthewsplace.com.

ABQ Pride 9th Most Popular NM Event

2008-10-04T11:15:00.001-06:00

New Mexico Business Weekly is out with their annual list of the top annual events in New Mexico, and Albuquerque Pride is ranked 9^th on the list up from 20^th last year. The most popular event is the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta followed by the State Fair.

Albuquerque Pride is in the company of the Spanish Market in Santa Fe and the Bernalillo Wine Festival. It is more popular than such institutions as the Hatch Chile Festival and Santa Fe’s Zozobra burning.

New Mexico Business Weekly reports attendance at this year’s parade and PrideFest was 30,000.

EQNM Executive Director Resigns

2008-10-04T11:09:00.001-06:00

In a late night email to supporters on September 28^th Alexis Blizman announced that after three years at the helm of Equality New Mexico, she was leaving the state’s advocacy agency.

“I am writing to you today to inform you that as of tonight, I am leaving my position of Executive Director of Equality New Mexico. This decision was a difficult but necessary one. For personal reasons, I have decided to move on,” Blizman stated in the email.

She continued, “The last three years have been incredible. We have fought to make New Mexico a better home for the LGBT community and our allies, defeating numerous pieces of anti-gay legislation and taking significant steps forward in our struggle for equality. I know that there is still much work to do, and even as I leave my position as ED, I remain committed to Equality New Mexico, its mission, and to the LGBT community.”

The resignation comes in the midst of a critical legislative election that could have a major impact on the community’s legislative agenda in the 2009 sixty day session. As of this writing the Press has been unable to obtain a response from EQNM.

Farmington GSA Thrives

2008-10-04T11:06:00.000-06:00

KOAT-TV is reporting a club within the Farmington School District is celebrating its one year anniversary.

It's a big accomplishment, since the formation of the controversial club almost ended all school clubs at Piedra Vista High School. The Gay Straight Alliance is thriving according the story reported on the ABC station’s website. The entire story is available at the following link http://www.koat.com/news/17611760/detail.html?rss=alb&taf=alb

October Indulgence

2008-10-04T09:43:00.000-06:00

Normal Heart Community Ventures Presents
“October Indulgence”
Thursday October 23, 2008 6:30 PM
Paisano Café
1740 Calle de Mercado in Mesilla

RSVP to Colin at cgromatz@nmsu.edu or 888-286-9306
Please RSVP by October 10th so we can make the reservations

Join us for dinner and conversation
You order off the menu and pay your check

$10 donation to support projects of Normal Heart Community Ventures

We’ll indulge one lucky guest with dessert on us.

Casino Night at the Mayapan

2008-09-08T05:09:00.001-06:00

The El Paso Community Foundation Cordially invites you to Casino Night at the Mayapan
For an evening of fun and “fun” raising to Help raise money for The Alliance Project

Join us on
September 12, 2008
5-10 p.m.

Café Mayapan
2000 Texas Avenue, El Paso

The Alliance Project
Benefiting the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Straight- Supportive Communities

In Far West Texas, Southern New Mexico and Northern Chihuahua

Great Starting Thought

2008-07-06T07:56:00.001-06:00

"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try." -- Beverly Sills

Fireworks

2008-07-05T09:18:00.001-06:00

Watching the Las Cruces fireworks from the backyard last night I was struck by what an amazing life I have. I live in, despite all its flaws, the greatest country in the world. I have the opportunity to create a better life for me and others by following my passion and having fun. My projects connect me with wildly creative, intelligent and inspiring people on a daily basis. This is so not what I would have expected a few years ago.

Life is cool and ..... there is work to do.

Southern New Mexico Pride ... photos on Facebook

2008-06-24T11:11:00.001-06:00

Link to photos on Facebook.... Facebook Album

Wrapping up Southern New Mexico Pride

2008-06-24T10:46:00.001-06:00

It is always a nice change of pace at Southern New Mexico Pride following the giant party in Albuquerque the week before. This year we had the added benefit of a breeze and a break in the 100+ degree weather.

Like our annual Pride trip to ABQ, our Southern New Mexico Pride had its glitches. We left the banners that identify our booths at home. This is not as big a deal here as it would have been in Albuquerque because here home is five miles from the park vs. three hours in Albuquerque. The bigger challenge was the camera batteries died just as the walking parade was lining up. Richard did a battery run but was not back until the parade was over. If you have pictures of the parade send them to me at david at nhcv dot org.

Approximately 800 people made their way through Pioneer Women’s Park during the five hour Pride Parade and Picnic. There was never a massive crowd like at bigger events so you could actually enjoy the people and chat. This relaxed environment is what I love and based on my conversations on Saturday a lot of people agree. As Southern New Mexico Pride grows I hope it keeps this easy going feel.

All in all I think Pride season was good. We had some conversations that moved projects forward and had some fun. All the goals were not met but given the resources we had I think we did as well as possible. There will be lessons for next year, there always are.

Happy Pride.

SNM Pride

2008-06-21T12:57:00.001-06:00

Slow internet connection... will blog from home later.... just talked to City Manager about Centers :)

Southern New Mexico Pride ... semi-live Blogging

2008-06-21T08:02:00.001-06:00

We are getting ready to leave to Pioneer Women's Park in Las Cruces for Southern New Mexico Pride (10 to 3). I will attempt to blog from the park but if that doesn't work I'll post about the events later today and over the next couple of days.

ABQ Pride Video from The New Mexico Independent

2008-06-16T14:27:00.001-06:00

The New Mexico Independent

ABQ Pride Photos on Facebook Day 2

2008-06-15T15:34:00.000-06:00

Here's a link to my Pride Day 2 album on Facebook.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2004344&l=44a68&id=1101246900

The Big Party – ABQ Pride – NM’s Largest LGBT Event

2008-06-15T15:25:00.000-06:00

The crowd was probably 8 to 10 Thousand people. It seemed a little less packed than the last couple of years but still huge. The crowd shots are a bit blurry at full size. I wish I could say it was protect the innocent but it’s just me having trouble holding still. Blame it on the Chardonnay in the VIP/Sponsor area :)

ABQ Pride Before the Big Party

2008-06-15T15:15:00.000-06:00

We always plan very well for Pride events since they take up most of our June. The lists are made, the supplies purchased, travel plans made and then it all falls apart. J No matter how well we think we are prepared there are always glitches. This year it was with the banners for our new tents. Richard was making them before we left and his plotter (wide format printer) ran out of ink. So he made them by hand Saturday morning. I’m not stressed. I’m not stressed. I’m not stressed. Yeah, Right!

Here’s a scene many of you may not have seen. This is what Pride looks like early in the morning before the crowds arrive. This is set up Saturday morning.

ABQ Pride day 2 ... the beginning

2008-06-14T10:33:00.001-06:00

We are putting the finishing touches on the booths...things that should have been done.. but there are always glitches. I'm off to get parade pictures. Will try to post during the day.

Beginning Day 2 of ABQ Pride

2008-06-14T07:34:00.001-06:00

The day starts with Free hotel breakfast after an awful nights sleep. We plan to get to Expo NM By 9:30 AM to be ready for the 11:00 AM opening and 10:00 AM parade. The parade won't get to Expo until 10:30 or 11:00 since it starts on the University of New Mexico campus which is a couple of miles away. Stay Tuned.

Pride photos on Facebook

2008-06-13T22:56:00.000-06:00

Here is a link to my album on Facebook with all of today's ABQ Pride pix.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2004295&l=e94fa&id=1101246900

2008-06-13T19:23:00.000-06:00

2008-06-13T19:17:00.000-06:00

Friday Evening at ABQ Pride

2008-06-13T19:10:00.001-06:00

We have pretty well set up both booths at Albuquerque Pride and are relaxing listening to the music drift over from the main stage. Friday evening is usually pretty calm and easy going without the massive crowd of Saturday. ABQ Pride draws about 10,000 people on Saturday and is the largest LGBT event in New Mexico.

A word of warning, expect some typos, laptop keyboards suck.

I took a couple of pictures earlier and we try uploading them. Wish me luck.

We just had a couple of winners of the pet parade stop by the booths. The won best use of Rainbow. I wonder if it was for their use or the dog's :)

More later.

The Pride Adventure Begins...

2008-06-13T12:26:00.001-06:00

We are leaving for ABQ. As is the custom for Pride trips we are at least 30 minutes behind schedule. :)

ABQ Pride Prep

2008-06-13T07:01:00.001-06:00

It's Friday the 13th, this worries me. It always worries me but with Albuquerque Pride starting this evening it adds a level of stress to the preparations. The plan is to leave Las Cruces by Noon to arrive in ABQ around 3:00, check into the hotel and get set up at Expo New Mexico (the state fairgrounds) by 5:00 PM. The live or semi-live blogging will commence once we are set up. Cross you figures the wireless access is good.

Blogging ABQ Pride

2008-06-12T21:46:00.000-06:00

I will be attempting to live or semi-live blog from Albuquerque Pride Friday and Saturday (6/13&14). Hopefully, I'll have good wireless access in our booth for the SW LGBT Press and NM GLBTQ Centers. Stay Tuned.

This is a Work in Progress

2008-05-01T13:39:00.000-06:00

Please check back for exciting articles, news and opinions geared toward the GLBT Community of New Mexico and West Texas!