Friday, December 26, 2008

from the New Mexican - Senator: State might pass domestic-partner measure

The chairman of the state Senate Judiciary Committee, who intends to introduce a measure to establish domestic partnerships — allowing any couple, including same-sex couples to enjoy all rights and responsibilities that state law gives to married couples — says he believes there are enough votes in the Legislature to pass a bill.

Sen. Cisco McSorley, D-Albuquerque, is optimistic because of election gains by progressive Democrats this year in the Legislature.

"It has a great chance of passing," McSorley said in a recent interview, "There's a lot of new legislators who are for it who have replaced legislators who were against it."

Read the entire story at the Santa Fe New Mexican website:

http://www.santafenewmexican.com/SantaFeNorthernNM/state-legislature-Senator--Domestic-partner-measure-may-pass

Sunday, December 21, 2008

DOMA Repeal Protest In The Works

Hello!
My name is Marianna Anaya and I am one of the organizers for Albuquerque's January 10th protest to repeal DOMA. I am looking for other activists and organizations to help me spread the word and I am also looking for speakers for the rally. I was wondering if your organization might be interested in helping out? I can be contacted at this email address or by phone at 505-907-5037. I hope to hear from you soon!
Thanks so much,
Marianna

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Rachel Maddow of MSNBC on Warrengate

Monday, December 8, 2008

Las Cruces Gentlemen’s Club Meets December 20th

Where: The home of Richard Panzer and Bob Thompson, 2873 San Miguel Court, Las Cruces

When: December 20, 5:00 PM 'til ?

What: A cookie and white elephant exchange. Please bring at least one dozen specialty cookies or bars. The hosts will provide a light supper to go with all the sweets. Also, please bring a fun wrapped item of little or no real value or expense to be exchanged for another wonderful "treasure" from someone else. I think we all know what a white elephant is.

What else: Please RSVP to Rich or Bob at 523-8028 or by e-mail czarolddog@aol.com
to let them know how many they can expect. Feel free to bring along friends if you like but let R&B know how many.

The January potluck has not been scheduled, but David Stocum and Richard Scramstad have volunteered to host in their home.

Sunday, December 7, 2008

NM GLBTQ Centers To Open First Center June 2009


(photo by Sheila Mink)

New Mexico GLBTQ Centers, Inc. announced November 16, 2008 that the opening of the first of six regional community centers will take place in June 2009. The Southern Regional Center in Las Cruces will open in conjunction with Southern New Mexico Pride, June 20, 2009.

A group of over 30 community members attended the announcement at Peace Lutheran Church in Las Cruces. A presentation by David Stocum, interim Executive Director of NM Centers, detailed the location in the Alameda-Depot Historic District near downtown Las Cruces. In addition to a virtual tour Stocum described the proposed start-up programs including a teen drop in center, peer facilitated support groups, library and community meeting space. Future programs will be developed based on the ongoing New Mexico GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment which will be completed in the spring of 2009.

“The Southern Regional Center will serve as the pilot center to test our business model and programs prior to rolling out additional centers over the next several years,” according to Stocum. A generous member of the Las Cruces community is making the center possible by “giving us a significant discount on rent, making some improvements and allowing us to configure the building as we need,” continued Stocum.

New Mexico GLBTQ Centers also announced a Membership Drive to help fund the opening of the Southern Regional Center and operation of the statewide organization. Information on the membership plans is available by contacting the Centers at info@newmexicoglbtq.org.

A Local Managing Board for the regional center is forming in addition to the statewide Board of Directors for New Mexico GLBTQ Centers. Board President Richard Scramstad is spearheading this effort and may be contacted at president@newmexicoglbtqcenters.org.

Fighting Mad? Fight Back!


By David Salcido

In the 1976 Robert Altman film Network, one of the most famous and chillingly prophetic speeches in movie history was given by Peter Finch’s talking head Howard Beale, when he said: “Things have got to change. But first, you’ve gotta get mad! You’ve got to say, ‘I’m mad as hell and I’m not gonna take this anymore!’” After the passing of Prop 8 in California, members of the LGBT community are finally waking up to the realization that unless we ALL do something about the current situation, nothing is ever going to change.

Luckily for us, there are organizations that are leading the charge, by tallying up the offenders, one by one. Millions of dollars were donated toward passing the offensive Proposition 8 in California. With so many economic problems plaguing this country, education cutbacks, people losing their homes and worse, thousands thought it beneficial to spend their money on denying basic civil rights to fellow Americans. Now those who did so are being held accountable.

Several websites have been erected since early November tallying the votes, crunching the numbers and naming the names, including AntiGayBlacklist.com. The San Francisco Chronicle has a section of their site dedicated to both sides of the debate, tallying up not only those who donated for Prop 8, but against it, as well. The lists were compiled for the Associated Press by Richard Dalton, “a computer-assisted reporting specialist” based on “campaign finance reports submitted to the Calif. Secretary of State’s Office since 2007.”

Of course, the usual suspects figure prominently on both lists. They came out in all their hate-mongering glory, flinging money at the Proposition like a many-headed Hydra. To date, the numbers are staggering. Anti-Christ James Dobson’s Focus On The Family donated many times, for a grand total of $539,643.66. Donald Wildmon’s The American Family Association donated $500,000 in one lump sum. Timothy LaHaye’s venomous wife Christine’s group Concerned Women For America dished out $409,000. The Knights of Columbus ponied up $1,425,000. And the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops blessed the campaign with $200,000 of their parishioner’s tithes. So much for the numbers.

By far the best and most informative site out there now is that offered by Californians Against Hate, whose Dishonor Role includes not only the names of individuals and companies who donated to Proposition 8, but the total amounts donated, broken down by date, along with information about the people who donated and website links, where available. Which makes it very easy to be proactive in researching and boycotting where appropriate. All information there is based on data made available by the California Secretary of State’s office.

It’s there that you’ll find many local business owners at which to direct your anger. Yes, I said it. If you’re angry about the results and really want to do something about it, target the people right here in your own backyard. Californians have their hands full with the thousands who live there. Let them take care of their own. We have our own fish to fry, right here in New Mexico. Take note.

Perhaps the biggest offender is Albuquerque resident and owner of the Blake’s Lotaburger food chain, Brian Rule. Yes, far from being a simple executive with the company, as originally reported, Rule is the sole owner of all 77 stores throughout New Mexico. Rule thought it a good idea to donate a whopping $10,000 to support Proposition 8. Members of the LGBT community disagree, making it their golden rule to avoid the burger bigot’s barnyard bistros wherever they may be found.

Coming up close on the list is William Moore, the Chief Executive Officer of Rinchem Company, Inc, headquartered in Albuquerque. Moore donated $9,999 of his company’s money to Proposition 8. It shouldn’t come as any surprise that Moore’s company specializes in transporting and warehousing toxic materials for “regional and Fortune 500 customers in North America, Europe, the Middle East and Asia.” Wise business-minded members of the LGBT community would do well to steer clear of Rinchem.

Another home-grown business owner, Steve Foutz, Chief Executive Officer of Foutz & Bursum Construction in Bloomfield, helped in the mission to deconstruct the civil rights of others. He thought it good business to donate $9,500 to Proposition 8. Ironic considering that Foutz attributes his success in the construction industry to his “professional, versatile and flexible” traits. Maybe he should have added “intolerant and thick as a brick” to the list, because Foutz’ “higher level of service” falls short in the community department.

One more business that didn’t really think things through is the Webb Automotive Group, Inc, located in Farmington, which donated $9,950 to the cause of driving a wedge between happy couples in California. Do you think it ever occurred to the owners of this “full service Cadillac and Chevrolet dealer” that luxury items, such as the cars they sell, are more likely to be sold to happy couples with no children and LOTS of disposable income to play with? Apparently not.

Other big-money and business-owning offenders include Darwin Harrison, Chief Financial Officer of Albuquerque Health Partners, LLC who donated $6,000; Joe Tanner, Native American Art Dealer with Fifth Generation Trading Co. in Farmington, who donated $5,000; Roger Cox, owner of Roger Cox & Associates, Inc and William Sego, Chief Executive Officer of Dura Bilt Products, Inc, both from Albuquerque and each of whom also donated $5,000; Marshall Jones, owner of Great American Stations in Gallup, who donated $2,000 and Jack Cook, general manager and owner of Navajo Trading Co. in Farmington, who donated $1,000.

All are worthy of our anger and boycott. Oh, but there are more. To find them, simply go to the San Francisco Chronicle site and do a search by state. There you’ll find the 50+ different contributors, including doctors, dentists, lawyers, accountants, insurance agents, bankers, financial advisors, building contractors, real estate developers, teachers and more.

Just remember, nothing has ever been solved through violence. If, however, you do find that you have been supporting the business of one or more of these people on the list, stop doing it and don’t forget to let them know WHY you will no longer be requiring their services. It’s really that easy. Because we’re all mad as hell, but the only way they’re ever going to know it, is if we tell them, in Howard Beale’s own words, “I’m a HUMAN BEING, Goddamnit! My life has value!”

Simply put, we DON’T have to take it, anymore.

Mike and Victor’s Annual New Year’s Open House

All are invited to our annual New Year Day open house potluck on Thursday January 1, 2009 from 530 p.m. on. Our house is located at 941 S. Melendres, Las Cruces, just off South Main Street.

Feel free to contact us for more information at 575 523-7301 or on line at vicmic@zianet.com

Please bring your friends. Everybody is welcome.

Energy, Feeling and Color in Motion: an art show

An exhibit of unique, original, hand-pulled monotypes: landscapes, abstracts and figures by Judith Masur will be held December 13 – 14 at RainbowVision Santa Fe. The Show, in the Press Room, is Saturday the 13th from 11AM to 4PM and 7PM to 9PM. The show continues on Sunday from 11AM to 4PM. There will be an Artist’s Reception on Saturday from 2PM to 4PM. RainbowVision Santa Fe is located at 500 Rodeo Road in Santa Fe. This event is one weekend only. Come and be dazzled by Energy, Feeling and Color in Motion.

Gay Men’s Chorus Comes Out For Christmas

Come Out for Christmas: a concert by the New Mexico Gay Men's Chorus
Three performances:

In Albuquerque: December 12 (Friday) at 7:30 p.m.
at Immanuel Presbyterian Church, 114 Carlisle Blvd, S.E.

Also in Albuquerque: Dec. 14 (Sunday) at 3 p.m.
at First Unitarian, 3701 Carlisle Blvd., N.E.

(Advance tickets in Albuquerque at Larry's Hats, 3102 Central, S.E.)

In Santa Fe: December 13 (Saturday) at 7:30 p.m.
at the Unitarian Church of Santa Fe, 107 West Barcelona Rd.
(Advance tickets in Santa Fe at Nicholas Potter Books, 211 E. Palace Ave.)

Advance tickets are $10; $12 for tickets at the door.
Tickets are also available on the website: NMGMC.org


The New Mexico Gay Men's Chorus is a group of 36 men conducted by Matthew Moore; accompanied by Stephen Montoya. Founded in 1981, the group has sung throughout New Mexico and in five other states and in Canada. Also on this Christmas concert with the chorus is the Stu MacAskie Trio.

On this program are popular Christmas favorites in new arrangements by Stu MacAskie and Timothy Takach (a singer with Cantus), as well as lush, new settings of "O Magnum Mysterium" and "Lux Aurumque." Humor by the group is highlighted in "Coming Out on Christmas" and "Dance of the Sugar-Plum Fairy."

GirlsShorts.tv Launches Online Film Fest

Albuquerque, New Mexico, November 29, 2008 - Imagine what it would be like to find quality lesbian short films in one central location on the web. GirlsShorts.tv has now made this possibility a reality.

GirlsShorts.tv is a new online community created to promote lesbian, bisexual and transgender short films, music videos, film and book trailers and more. It will provide affordable pay per view, pay per download and free ad-supported content to an international audience, and internet exposure to professional, semi-professional, and amateur lesbian, bisexual and transgender filmmakers.

“The internet has made web video a reality, but finding real lesbian content can be quite difficult (and sometimes icky!). This site should have great potential for both creators and those of us hungry for content.”
- Angie Beauchamp

GirlsShorts.tv is owned by Verge Communications, based in Albuquerque, New Mexico and operated by two women with a passion for film: Angie Beauchamp and Nina Knapp. The owners have a history of experience in promotions, marketing, and active involvement in filmmaking including making their own films.

“For the past two years, we have volunteered on the screening committee for the Southwest Gay & Lesbian Film Festival here in Albuquerque. What struck both Angie and I was how many good films were submitted, and how few would find their way into the festival program.”
- Nina Knapp

“Many filmmakers find distribution to be a difficult and daunting task, but their short films are just as deserving of an audience as those films accepted for national and international film festivals.”
- Angie Beauchamp

Knapp and Beauchamp decided to form a partnership, Verge Communications, and to launch a new online community dedicated to bringing lesbian, bisexual and transgender short films to a global audience, while supporting the filmmakers through a revenue sharing program at the same time. Thus, GirlsShorts.tv was born.

“The internet has made web video a reality, but finding real lesbian content can be quite difficult (and sometimes icky!). This site should have great potential for both creators and those of us hungry for content.”
- Angie Beauchamp

The goals of GirlsShorts.tv are:
• Provide global exposure to filmmakers;
• Provide a revenue stream to filmmakers through our revenue sharing program;
• Provide a venue for filmmakers to promote all their works;
• Find a new life for older films;
• Provide exposure to comedians, musicians and authors through performance clips and book trailers;
• Allow filmmakers to retain all rights to their work.

“GirlsShorts.tv is the most exciting thin I’ve heard about in a long time. Part of that is the profit sharing that can occur by having your work on the site, and the other part of that is just by having another platform to launch your work…Particularly with our niche market, the lesbian and queer population worldwide,…having a way to make more films by earning revenue on the short films you’ve already made is an incredibly delicious idea.”
- Rosser Goodman, Director, Producer, HOLDING TREVOR – KGB Films

GirlsShorts.tv accepts video content up to 35 minutes in length in avi, mpg, wmv, dat, mov, or flv formats. We prefer content be submitted on DVD, but VHS, VCD, or CD are also acceptable. Content in PAL must be submitted on a DVD.

“We look forward to creating a diverse community celebrating lesbian, bisexual and transgender film!”
- Angie Beauchamp

Sunday, November 30, 2008

PFLAG Picnics in Farmington and Carlsbad by Sheila Mink

PFLAG Picnics in Farmington and Carlsbad by Sheila Mink

The month of October 2008 was the time for two PFLAG picnics, one in the NW and one in the SE part of New Mexico. And, they were on consecutive weekends. Knowing this information was the motivation for two road trips.

Shortly before noon on Saturday October 11th Katherine Palmer & I were ready to leave for Farmington, New Mexico. The wind was blowing briskly, to say the least, as we headed for Albuquerque, stopping there long enough to fill our gas tank. We continued on from the gas station and arrived in Farmington later that afternoon.

Next, we decided to look for the park where the picnic would be held the next day. After a bit of driving around we located both the park and the pavilion. The wind was still blowing very briskly.

Early on Sunday afternoon we ventured back to the pavilion in Lions Park, in time for the start of the picnic sponsored by the Farmington PFLAG Chapter. The temperature, having cooled considerably from the previous day, was about 55 degrees, but fortunately the wind had slowed down to about 25 miles per hour. And, thankfully, the sun was shining brightly, which helped to warm things up a bit. While we ate and talked we were also able to watch the people nearby in the park who were playing Frisbee Golf.

Monday morning in Farmington was very cold, setting a low temperature record of 22 degrees for October 13th. However, as we left for home, we were still basking in the warmth of the good time that we had at the picnic on Sunday.

The next weekend brought us another opportunity to attend a PFLAG picnic, this time on October 18th in Carlsbad, New Mexico.

A little bit past noon on Friday the 17th we were on our way. The weather was much nicer, without the windy conditions of the previous weekend.

Upon our arrival in Carlsbad, we once again went park hunting. This time we weren't able to find the park or the pavilion. Fortunately, we had the next morning to try again.

On Saturday morning we got together for breakfast with one of the members of the Carlsbad PFLAG Chapter. After we were done eating, she showed us how to get to the park and the pavilion. (As it turned out, we had come pretty close to finding it on Friday.)

In the early afternoon we were back at the pavilion, in time to walk around a bit before the picnic started. Since it was in Riverview Park near the Pecos River the scene was very different from that in Lions Park. Where we had seen pretty sandstone rocks at the picnic in Farmington, in Carlsbad we now saw pretty green grass, trees, and water.

And, the weather was quite different too, this time the temperature was 75 degrees, the sun was shining, and the wind was only about 15 miles per hour. For a day in late October it felt pretty good.

Once again we had a good time visiting with the people who came to the picnic. Many of them we had not met previously. The hours passed quickly, and then it was time for us to leave. As we drove home, we had good thoughts and good memories to take with us.

Currently there are chapters in Farmington, Santa Fe, Albuquerque, Silver City, Las Cruces, Alamogordo, and Carlsbad.

Would you like to have a PFLAG chapter in the New Mexico town where you live? Katherine Palmer, the New Mexico PFLAG State Coordinator, would be glad to help you start one.

cell: 505-873-7373
email: contact@pflagabq.org

Sunday, November 2, 2008

An Update On The Campaign For Domestic Partnership

An Update On The Campaign For Domestic Partnership
From The Campaign

The Domestic Partnership Campaign hit the ground running in late August and has been mobilizing our community and allies in cities and towns across the state. Campaign managers Jennifer Rose and Sandra Wechsler, Field Organizer Trey La Fleur, and Jesse Lopez Volunteer extraordinaire, have been leading the efforts to elect our pro-equality candidates and legislators.

The Campaign has been dedicated to working in six targeted legislative races in the northern and southern part of the state. In collaboration with our pro-equality legislators we have been organizing volunteers, hosting phone banks and walking door to door with our allies. We have connected with thousands of New Mexicans who support equality in New Mexico.

In addition to working in these important legislative races, the Campaign has been implementing our legislative and advocacy strategy. We are working in partnership with the Coalition for Domestic Partnership. The Coalition consists of organizations and advocates from multiple sectors that have come together to organize individuals, communities, businesses, and our faith leaders, to work towards passing domestic partnership in the upcoming legislative session.

In the upcoming months we will support our coalition partners host advocacy trainings, conduct town hall meetings, and educate individuals and leaders about the importance of ensuring equality for all New Mexicans.

We believe this is the year we will pass domestic partnership, but we need YOU!

Here are a few things each and every one of us can start doing now:

1) Tell your story! Talk to family, friends, and co-workers about the importance of ensuring all New Mexicans have basic legal protections.

2) Email us at dpcampaign@threesixtynm.com and sign up to volunteer to help pass domestic partnership.

3) Go to www.equalitypac.com and www.eqnm.org and make a donation.
For more information on how to get involved in the Domestic Partnership Campaign contact Jennifer Rose at 505-490-9058.

ABQs Common Bond Launches New Website



From Common Bond


Common Bond is putting together a new web site to try to fill the communication gap that is gapping in the Albuquerque LGBTIQ communities. The new site is CommonBondNM.org It started rolling out last night and should be full active today, Nov. 1. We are starting out with the resource list from Common Bond's old site, some news feeds and a link to LGBT Press for regional news, and calendar for anyone to post calendar items.

As it gets going we will be adding a "What's Happening" with "Eyes About Town" and other columns about things happening around town teasers of events coming up, issues arising and with photos & comments of past events. There will
- be a place to post opinions, ask for assistance & for opinions, and place to blog & comment and say what is on your mind,
- we will create some ways for people to do some networking, and
- groups will be able to set up their own sub-sites that can have their own calendar and it will be possible to limit to members.

What we hope is that it will become a reliable and authoritative source of information on all things happening in about & concerning the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered, Intersex, Two-Spirit, and Queer communities and their allies. We will be having meetings and training so people can learn how to use it better. We hope you will add your voice to this community web site.

This is a beginning. We want it to be a community web site, one that each of the community members feels like represents them in a way. It is open for you to put on it what you want. We are looking for folks to contribute to the web site, to author articles and columns and to manage the content be posted to the site. We will be having meetings and training so people can learn how to use it better. We hope you will add your voice to this community web site.

Check out the site: http://commonbondnm.org and leave a comment via the "Feedback" item at the bottom in the upper left menu of Primary Links.

If you are unfamiliar with Common Bond, it's full name is Common Bond New Mexico Foundation. It is the oldest gay & lesbian organization in New Mexico having been formed in 1981. It ran Albuquerque's lesbian & gay community center from 1983 to 1998. It still runs U21, an every Friday night social & informative gathering for youth under 21. In the last couple of years it has added Center Without Walls, to put on programs that would happen at a community center and Drops of Rain, an electronic monthly LGBTITQ collection plate to assist the people to make regular payments to those creating their community. Many of the current establish organizations spun off from groups that started at Common Bond. We are looking to again be that center for people work their magic, focus efforts and connect people to strengthen and enliven our community and communities here in Albuquerque and New Mexico.

Equality New Mexico Continues To Lead For Equal Rights


Equality New Mexico Continues To Lead For Equal Rights
From EQNM

Since 1993, Equality New Mexico has lead the way for L/G/B/T rights in New Mexico. Yet, this is a time of transition and exciting challenges for EQNM and New Mexico's L/G/B/T community.

The national organizations that have heavily supported EQNM over the years have made defeating California's Proposition 8 their number one priority. That means that EQNM will have to operate with one third of the budget the Board expected. It means that the Board of Directors has taken extraordinary measures to slash costs and significantly step-up its New Mexico fund-raising efforts.

"We remain committed to our goals," noted newly-elected Board President Chris Herbert of Roswell.

The Board of Directors has not allowed current circumstances to curtail their short-term or long-term goals for the organization.

"As always," affirmed Rachel Rosen, Santa Fe, "EQNM will continue to pursue our three-pronged agenda: Legislation, Advocacy, and Education."

EQNM supports the Campaign for Domestic Partnership, a joint project with Equality PAC. To that end, the Campaign for Domestic Partnership has hired Trey LeFleur, an organizer based in Las Cruces, and Sandra Wechsler, our campaign manager based in Santa Fe, for the Domestic Partner Campaign.

"The Campaign is aggressively working to educate voters in districts where we need to pick-up votes," reminded LeFleur. "We're particularly active in Dona Ana County."

The Campaign is active in six legislative races in the northern and southern parts of the State. EQNM will push anti-bullying legislation in the 2009 Legislative Session, in addition to our Domestic Partnership Bill.

Serving as lead advocates, EQNM volunteers and staff continue to field calls from across the State. EQNM advocates for L/G/B/T people across New Mexico.

"We get so many heart-warming, encouraging calls every day," noted Jesse Lopez, Albuquerque volunteer. "But, we still get far too many heart-breaking ones as well."

EQNM continues to pursue programmatic work to educate the community about our hard-won civil rights, the extent of the Hate Crimes Act, and fairness in relationship recognition.

What does that mean to YOU? It means EQNM needs your help like never before. It means that EQNM needs you to donate money. It means that EQNM needs you to volunteer for the Campaign for Domestic Partnership.

"It means EQNM needs you to take action now," confirmed Virginia Stephenson, Board member, "to ensure equality for our community."

Links:

www.EQNM.org
www.EqualityPAC.com

PFLAG Las Cruces to Hold “Transparent” Fundraiser

PFLAG Las Cruces will screen the film Transparent at it 13th annual Celebrate Diversity Fundraiser November 8, 2008 at the Hershel Zohn Theatre at New Mexico State University.

Transparent is a documentary that focuses on 19 female to male transgender people and their coming to terms with transitioning. The 2005 film has been acclaimed as one of the best examples of new Trans cinema.

For more information or to purchase tickets contact Merlyn at 575-522-2624 or pflaglascruces@yahoo.com.

NM GLBTQ Centers Celebrate Community



New Mexico GLBTQ Centers (NM Centers) will celebrate the GLBTQ community and make a major announcement at an event on Sunday November 16 at Peace Lutheran Church. The event will be from 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM.

NM Centers’ Board of Directors, community leaders, dignitaries and special guests will celebrate community as New Mexico GLBTQ Centers will announce what’s next in creating a statewide system of GLBTQ Community Centers.

Peace Lutheran Church is located at 1701 Missouri Ave. in Las Cruces. Refreshments will be served. The community is invited to join the celebration. According to NM Centers Board President Richard Scramstad, “We’re excited about what has been happening and the announcement we will be making. We want to share our excitement with the entire community.”

NM Centers request you RSVP but are not requiring them, you may RSVP to info@newmexicoglbtqcenters.org

VAGINA MONOLOGUES AUDITIONS


Auditions for the Vagina Monologues and a new play, A Memory, A Monologue, A Rant and A Prayer, will be held the first week of November:

THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 6 from 4:00-6:00pm
FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 7 from 6:00-8:00pm
SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 8 from 10:00am-2:00pm

Location: The Women Studies office at NMSU, Science Hall room #286

WOMEN and MEN of all ages, shapes, styles and walks of life welcome and encouraged to audition!
NO ACTING EXPERIENCE NECESSARY - just a passion and commitment to ending violence against women.
Looking for people to act, work behind stage, organize, volunteer, and help in any way!

For more information, please email vday.nmsu@gmail.com.

Santa Fe Mountain Center Receives International Honor





Santa Fe, N.M.—The Santa Fe Mountain Center (SFMC) has been selected as the Association for Experiential Education’s (AEE) organizational member of the year. AEE is a nonprofit, professional membership association dedicated to the promotion and support of experiential education and has over 1500 members in 35 countries.

Dr. Nina Roberts, assistant professor of Recreation, Tourism and Parks at San Francisco State University, wrote in here nomination letter:
“They have touched the lives of thousands of people, young and old, giving many of their clients something to hope for during times of uncertainty and despair. Even the healthiest participants – across the program spectrum – credit SFMC for providing them with new ways of thinking and being in the world. The SFMC exemplified social justice and constantly strives for social change by Mountain Center will soon be celebrating 30-years as one of this nation’s premiere experiential education programs.”

The Santa Fe Mountain Center is the only nationally accredited therapeutic adventure program in New Mexico, and has been providing programming for the most underserved populations in the state since 1979. The methodologies applied represent an alternative to traditional educational and therapeutic approaches which tend to be conducted in comfortable institutional settings. SFMC creates learning experiences that include elements of adventure, community/civic engagement, education and challenge. Seventy five percent of the programming is focused on vulnerable youth through the Therapeutic Adventure Program (TAP). This program serves adjudicated youth, survivors of sexual, physical or emotional abuse, substance abusers, youth at risk of entering the system, youth in treatment, and displaced youth from a diversity of backgrounds and cultures. Socially and culturally sensitive applications have been developed for specific youth populations including Native American and LGBTQA (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Questioning and Straight Allied) youth who have amongst the highest rates of suicide and drug abuse nationally. The balance of the curriculum focuses on adult and family services for trauma survivors, those at risk or affected by HIV/AIDS, and harm reduction services for intravenous drug users.

Developed through years of research and evaluation, SFMC programs are rooted in the Experiential Adventure-Based Resiliency Model© which focuses on building social competencies, positive values, and positive identity development. Adventure-based activities such as hiking, rock climbing, rafting, ropes courses, group problem solving challenges, and community mobilization activities, engage clients in a manner that integrates mind, body and spirit and have proven to be powerful vehicles for developing a sense of self worth, responsibility, and connection to community and the natural world. SFMC also endorses and is part of the No Child Left Inside Movement as they have been connecting children and adults to the wonders of the natural world since their inception.

From the early 1980’s SMFC became known for innovative applications of experiential education and adventure therapy consistently receiving recognition for their ground breaking work. “You’re in a territory that no other organization in the field is in right now, reaching out with applications of adventure programming that were unheard of.” stated Dr. Mike Gass, Dean of the Kinesiology at the UNH, during a recent AEE re-accreditation of the center. “The legacy that you are leaving continues to leave a huge broad wake in the field that is affecting other organizations. In many ways you lead the field and people recognize that. They’re watching you and want to know what you’re doing because what you do positively affects other people.” he added.

Addressing pressing social issues facing specific New Mexico populations that others have shied away from has been a distinguishing attribute of the organization. Examples of such programming include: Emergence, a Native youth leadership initiative which integrates experiential education, environmental awareness and community mobilization to provide Native youth with culturally sensitive tools for addressing community challenges; Climbing Up, Climbing Out /GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) Network which focuses on positive identity, resiliency skills, empowerment, and community support for LGBTQA youth; The Anti-Bullying Initiative, a program designed in response to requests from local teachers to promote healthy peer relationships and create more caring and safe school communities that enhance learning opportunities for all students; Adventure Out, a pioneering HIV prevention program which utilizes experiential education and wilderness adventure for personal empowerment with a focus on healthy decision making; Positive Adventures, a program created to encourage people living with HIV/AIDS to maintain a positive outlook, continue living fulfilling lives and engage in community; and Harm Reduction Services where intravenous drug users in Rio Arriba County (which has the highest heroin overdose rate per capita in the U.S.) receive food, health education, treatment information and needle exchange to reduce the spread of Hepatitis C and HIV.

“You have a strong and vocal stance on social justice. You live social justice issues everyday and this permeates the very fiber of these walls, the people who work here, and the people who come here.” shared Dr. Mike Gass. “You can’t hide these programs like Climbing up Climbing Out, and Adventure Out and say that’s for our folks here that we work with.” he stated emphatically. “You need to share it with others because what you have achieved in these types of programs is so very, very important. So many efforts to clients that need services like these are in communities that are just afraid, and they don’t know how to go about achieving greatness like you have. So if you can take what you have produced and put fear to the side so that people who are genuinely underserved can really feel empowered – that is really something of a treasure you can present to other people.” he added.

SFMC’s innovative programming is producing significant, measurable results with requests for replication in other states. Invitations to present at national conferences have been frequent over the years and increasing as of late. Last month, Martin Walker and Kahlo Benavidez, of the Adventure Out HIV prevention program shared strategy and powerful outcomes of the unique approach at the largest U.S. HIV/AIDS conference. Next month the Harm Reduction program coordinator, Sheilah Galer, will be presenting at the National Harm Reduction conference in Miami, and also in November, several staff will be presenting at the National AEE conference in Vancouver, B.C. where SFMC will be acknowledged with this prestigious recognition. “Receiving the AEE Organization of Year award means so much to us, as we have worked so hard to be a responsive community resource as well as a program that sets high standards for the field of Experiential Education. We feel humbled and proud.” shares Executive Director, Sky Gray.

The Santa Fe Mountain Center is a 501(c)3 organization located in Tesuque, New Mexico, and provides services to clients statewide. They are dedicated to promoting personal discovery and social change among youth, families and groups through the use of creative learning experiences in wilderness, community, and cultural environments. The center regularly holds access lunches where community members can come and observe first hand the powerful interactions that participants experience. Please contact them at 505-983-6158 for future dates.

Saturday, October 25, 2008

Southern New Mexico Pride Halloween Ball To Be Held Oct. 31


LAS CRUCES - Please join Southern New Mexico Pride for An 80’s Halloween Ball from 8:00-11:00 p.m. on Halloween night, Friday, October 31, 2008 at the Las Cruces Country Club.

The Ball will feature a costume contest, door prizes, a cash bar and all the 80’s music you can shake a broomstick at! Admission is $15 per person.

All ghosts, goblins, vampires, and witches 18 years and older are welcome.
Dress as wild and crazy as your imagination will allow.

All proceeds will go to fund Southern New Mexico Pride – celebrating diversity in Las Cruces. Pride puts on the Pride parade and celebration each June in Las Cruces.

Tickets available at the door and in advance at Spirit Winds in Las Cruces or by calling Jeff or Doug at 575-556-0264.

Saturday, October 11, 2008

New Gentlemen's Club to Meet Oct. 25th

The second gathering of the newly formed Gentlemen's Club of Las Cruces was held at the home of Paul Sestina on East Mesa. Seventeen men attended the potluck dinner and had a great time.

The group decided at this event to become more inclusive in its membership circle in the Las Cruces area, including neighboring communities, by welcoming gay men of all ages, single or coupled, and to attempt social outings in addition to its monthly potluck dinners. The group's mailing list now numbers 31 men.

The next event will be a potluck dinner (please bring an appetizer or dessert) on Saturday, October 25 at 6:00 PM. Those who wish to attend, or for further information, are asked to call John at 382-6914 or e-mail jabart83@aol.com by October 22. Location and directions will be given upon request.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

GLBT History Month 2008






NM GLBTQ Centers Begins Community Needs Assessment




The New Mexico State Fair marked the beginning of the first statewide gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning (GLBTQ) community needs assessment. New Mexico GLBTQ Centers, Inc., a Las Cruces based non-profit creating GLBTQ Community Centers statewide has received a $9800 grant from The Gamma Mu Foundation of Ft. Lauderdale, FL to partially fund the comprehensive statewide GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment. The New Mexico GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment will look at the needs of New Mexico’s diverse GLBTQ community in areas of healthcare, mental healthcare, senior programs, youth programs and other issues. The survey, which will be used to develop Center programs, will include both urban and rural areas of New Mexico.

“According to the Movement Advancement Project, the GLBTQ population of New Mexico is 68,411 people,” States David Stocum, Interim Executive Director of NM GLBTQ Centers. “We know many of these residents feel isolated and afraid,” Stocum continues. “This assessment is a step in ending that isolation and fear, a step in fully including ourselves in the community of New Mexico.”

The Arrowhead Center at New Mexico State University completed a market analysis during the summer as part of the New Mexico GLBTQ Community Needs Assessment. The market analysis found that “The development of the GLBTQ Centers will be a positive improvement on the well-being of the GLBTQ population. Building on improving the lives of this population is necessary for economic and social development. With assistance, many individuals in the rural areas will achieve a higher standard of living, and over time the NM Centers have the potential to effect positive change throughout the entire state of New Mexico.”

NM GLBTQ Centers was at the New Mexico State Fair with other GLBTQ community groups and was recruiting survey participants and volunteers to assist with the community needs assessment. Anyone interested in assisting may also contact the Centers at info@newmexicoglbtqcenters.org.

PFLAG Las Cruces to Hold “Transparent” Fundraiser

PFLAG Las Cruces will screen the film Transparent at it 13th annual Celebrate Diversity Fundraiser November 8, 2008 at the Hershel Zohn Theatre at New Mexico State University.

Transparent is a documentary that focuses on 19 female to male transgender people and their coming to terms with transitioning. The 2005 film has been acclaimed as one of the best examples of new Trans cinema.

For more information or to purchase tickets contact Merlyn at 575-522-2624 or pflaglascruces@yahoo.com.

Remembering Matthew 10 Years Later



Photo by Gina van Hoof



Ten years ago on October 6th Matthew Shepard was brutally beaten and left to die. After days in a coma, he passed away on October 12, 1998.

According to the Matthew Shepard Foundation website, “Matthew was an optimistic and accepting young man. He always put his family and friends first and had a special gift of relating to almost everyone. He was the type of person that was very approachable and always looked to new challenges. Matthew had a great passion for equality and always stood up for the acceptance of people's differences.”

Matthew’s mother Judy founded the foundation to work to end hate. The current “Campaign to Erase Hate” focuses on ten ways to erase hate everyday. You can learn more about Matthew’s life and legacy at www.matthewspepard.org or www.matthewsplace.com.

ABQ Pride 9th Most Popular NM Event

New Mexico Business Weekly is out with their annual list of the top annual events in New Mexico, and Albuquerque Pride is ranked 9th on the list up from 20th last year. The most popular event is the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta followed by the State Fair.


Albuquerque Pride is in the company of the Spanish Market in Santa Fe and the Bernalillo Wine Festival. It is more popular than such institutions as the Hatch Chile Festival and Santa Fe’s Zozobra burning.


New Mexico Business Weekly reports attendance at this year’s parade and PrideFest was 30,000.

EQNM Executive Director Resigns



In a late night email to supporters on September 28th Alexis Blizman announced that after three years at the helm of Equality New Mexico, she was leaving the state’s advocacy agency.

“I am writing to you today to inform you that as of tonight, I am leaving my position of Executive Director of Equality New Mexico. This decision was a difficult but necessary one. For personal reasons, I have decided to move on,” Blizman stated in the email.


She continued, “The last three years have been incredible. We have fought to make New Mexico a better home for the LGBT community and our allies, defeating numerous pieces of anti-gay legislation and taking significant steps forward in our struggle for equality. I know that there is still much work to do, and even as I leave my position as ED, I remain committed to Equality New Mexico, its mission, and to the LGBT community.”


The resignation comes in the midst of a critical legislative election that could have a major impact on the community’s legislative agenda in the 2009 sixty day session. As of this writing the Press has been unable to obtain a response from EQNM.

Farmington GSA Thrives

KOAT-TV is reporting a club within the Farmington School District is celebrating its one year anniversary.

It's a big accomplishment, since the formation of the controversial club almost ended all school clubs at Piedra Vista High School. The Gay Straight Alliance is thriving according the story reported on the ABC station’s website. The entire story is available at the following link http://www.koat.com/news/17611760/detail.html?rss=alb&taf=alb

October Indulgence

Normal Heart Community Ventures Presents
“October Indulgence”
Thursday October 23, 2008 6:30 PM
Paisano Café
1740 Calle de Mercado in Mesilla

RSVP to Colin at cgromatz@nmsu.edu or 888-286-9306
Please RSVP by October 10th so we can make the reservations

Join us for dinner and conversation
You order off the menu and pay your check

$10 donation to support projects of Normal Heart Community Ventures

We’ll indulge one lucky guest with dessert on us.

Monday, September 8, 2008

Casino Night at the Mayapan

The El Paso Community Foundation Cordially invites you to Casino Night at the Mayapan
For an evening of fun and “fun” raising to Help raise money for The Alliance Project

Join us on
September 12, 2008
5-10 p.m.


Café Mayapan
2000 Texas Avenue, El Paso

The Alliance Project
Benefiting the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender and Straight- Supportive Communities

In Far West Texas, Southern New Mexico and Northern Chihuahua

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Great Starting Thought

"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try." -- Beverly Sills

Saturday, July 5, 2008

Fireworks

Watching the Las Cruces fireworks from the backyard last night I was struck by what an amazing life I have. I live in, despite all its flaws, the greatest country in the world. I have the opportunity to create a better life for me and others by following my passion and having fun. My projects connect me with wildly creative, intelligent and inspiring people on a daily basis. This is so not what I would have expected a few years ago.

Life is cool and ..... there is work to do.

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Southern New Mexico Pride ... photos on Facebook



Link to photos on Facebook.... Facebook Album



Wrapping up Southern New Mexico Pride

It is always a nice change of pace at Southern New Mexico Pride following the giant party in Albuquerque the week before. This year we had the added benefit of a breeze and a break in the 100+ degree weather.

Like our annual Pride trip to ABQ, our Southern New Mexico Pride had its glitches. We left the banners that identify our booths at home. This is not as big a deal here as it would have been in Albuquerque because here home is five miles from the park vs. three hours in Albuquerque. The bigger challenge was the camera batteries died just as the walking parade was lining up. Richard did a battery run but was not back until the parade was over. If you have pictures of the parade send them to me at david at nhcv dot org.

Approximately 800 people made their way through Pioneer Women’s Park during the five hour Pride Parade and Picnic. There was never a massive crowd like at bigger events so you could actually enjoy the people and chat. This relaxed environment is what I love and based on my conversations on Saturday a lot of people agree. As Southern New Mexico Pride grows I hope it keeps this easy going feel.

All in all I think Pride season was good. We had some conversations that moved projects forward and had some fun. All the goals were not met but given the resources we had I think we did as well as possible. There will be lessons for next year, there always are.

Happy Pride.

Saturday, June 21, 2008

SNM Pride

Slow internet connection... will blog from home later.... just talked to City Manager about Centers :)

Southern New Mexico Pride ... semi-live Blogging

We are getting ready to leave to Pioneer Women's Park in Las Cruces for Southern New Mexico Pride (10 to 3). I will attempt to blog from the park but if that doesn't work I'll post about the events later today and over the next couple of days.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

ABQ Pride Photos on Facebook Day 2

Here's a link to my Pride Day 2 album on Facebook.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2004344&l=44a68&id=1101246900

The Big Party – ABQ Pride – NM’s Largest LGBT Event

The crowd was probably 8 to 10 Thousand people. It seemed a little less packed than the last couple of years but still huge. The crowd shots are a bit blurry at full size. I wish I could say it was protect the innocent but it’s just me having trouble holding still. Blame it on the Chardonnay in the VIP/Sponsor area :)






ABQ Pride Before the Big Party

We always plan very well for Pride events since they take up most of our June. The lists are made, the supplies purchased, travel plans made and then it all falls apart. J No matter how well we think we are prepared there are always glitches. This year it was with the banners for our new tents. Richard was making them before we left and his plotter (wide format printer) ran out of ink. So he made them by hand Saturday morning. I’m not stressed. I’m not stressed. I’m not stressed. Yeah, Right!


Here’s a scene many of you may not have seen. This is what Pride looks like early in the morning before the crowds arrive. This is set up Saturday morning.




Saturday, June 14, 2008

ABQ Pride day 2 ... the beginning

We are putting the finishing touches on the booths...things that should have been done.. but there are always glitches. I'm off to get parade pictures. Will try to post during the day.

Beginning Day 2 of ABQ Pride

The day starts with Free hotel breakfast after an awful nights sleep. We plan to get to Expo NM By 9:30 AM to be ready for the 11:00 AM opening and 10:00 AM parade. The parade won't get to Expo until 10:30 or 11:00 since it starts on the University of New Mexico campus which is a couple of miles away. Stay Tuned.

Friday, June 13, 2008

Pride photos on Facebook

Here is a link to my album on Facebook with all of today's ABQ Pride pix.


http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=2004295&l=e94fa&id=1101246900

Friday Evening at ABQ Pride

We have pretty well set up both booths at Albuquerque Pride and are relaxing listening to the music drift over from the main stage. Friday evening is usually pretty calm and easy going without the massive crowd of Saturday. ABQ Pride draws about 10,000 people on Saturday and is the largest LGBT event in New Mexico.

A word of warning, expect some typos, laptop keyboards suck.

I took a couple of pictures earlier and we try uploading them. Wish me luck.

We just had a couple of winners of the pet parade stop by the booths. The won best use of Rainbow. I wonder if it was for their use or the dog's :)

More later.

The Pride Adventure Begins...

We are leaving for ABQ. As is the custom for Pride trips we are at least 30 minutes behind schedule. :)

ABQ Pride Prep

It's Friday the 13th, this worries me. It always worries me but with Albuquerque Pride starting this evening it adds a level of stress to the preparations. The plan is to leave Las Cruces by Noon to arrive in ABQ around 3:00, check into the hotel and get set up at Expo New Mexico (the state fairgrounds) by 5:00 PM. The live or semi-live blogging will commence once we are set up. Cross you figures the wireless access is good.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Blogging ABQ Pride

I will be attempting to live or semi-live blog from Albuquerque Pride Friday and Saturday (6/13&14). Hopefully, I'll have good wireless access in our booth for the SW LGBT Press and NM GLBTQ Centers. Stay Tuned.

Thursday, May 1, 2008

This is a Work in Progress

Please check back for exciting articles, news and opinions geared toward the GLBT Community of New Mexico and West Texas!